Thanks, Mom

In front of a group of people, my mom announced that my ass was big and fat. I don’t know what compelled her announcement. I weigh the same as I always do this time of the year and I’m within 10 lbs of what I weighed in high school. I feel mostly disappointed that even someone who is your own mother would delight in trying to publicly humiliate you. Normally I make efforts to see her, take her out for meals, pop in and say hi, but what is the point in kindness when someone is waiting to sabotage you? I’ll never repeat this behaviour on my own kids.

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a big fat ass

Aug 17, 2019 at 2:56pm

is what everyone wants now.
she jealous

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Why Wait?

Aug 17, 2019 at 3:12pm

Call her on it. Unless she has a brain disease she shouldn't be so rude. Let her know how you feel. If she doesn't get it, return the favour.

It’s called

Aug 17, 2019 at 5:23pm

Snow White syndrome....she’s just jealous
My mom always used to insult me and me looks and I have had body image issues my whole life....sad that s mother does this, I have a daughter and I would never do this to her, she is the most beautiful , intelligent, strongest girl I know and I love her so much

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Empathy

Aug 18, 2019 at 10:06am

I'm sorry this happened to you. Sometimes my mother (who I am otherwise close with) also says mean things to be "funny" when actually it's just cruel... I've distanced myself from her for the same reason.

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Same same

Aug 18, 2019 at 1:22pm

My mom does it too. She had a difficult life and has personal issues. My dad does it in an "affectionate teasing" kind of way. I've accepted that my parents will continue to embarrass me, and pretty much every detail of my life is common knowledge among friends and acquaintances because they like to gossip. I used to be very angry and resentful about it. Now, I don't care too much. If someone judges me without knowing me or based on what my parents tell them, then I don't think this person is worth my time. Despite all their imperfections, my parents are loving and made many sacrifices to give us a good life. I will be forever grateful to them. Sometimes, you have to learn to accept people the way they are.

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Same.

Aug 18, 2019 at 6:04pm

I’m much older than you. I’ve experienced this my whole life. Your mother is a classic narcissist. The kind of female that is threatened by other women. Even their own child. My mom still thinks she can seduce any man in the room. Even at 76 years old. Tying her sexuality to her value. Narcissists get off on being superior and mind fucking anyone that threatens them/their ego. Rise above and put your guard up. Deflect the mind fucks and feel sad for your pathetic mother.

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Oh my

Aug 19, 2019 at 4:34pm

So much more of a confession with a picture.

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Bill W.

Aug 20, 2019 at 12:48am

Chin up.... I bet your ass is hot. Forget what mom says and find a man(or woman) that likes your ass just the way it is.

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