What to do
posted August 19th, 2019 at 5:12 PM
I knew from the start being with him would change me for the worse.. Now I've changed and i don't know how to get myself back
posted August 19th, 2019 at 5:12 PM
Dan offers some advice on where she might find it.
You were sitting by yourself & you ordered a few Curry Fish Balls and a few deep-fried Spring...
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Aug 19, 2019 at 11:03pm
describing my circumstance.
I told you Lord Voldemorte was evil
Aug 19, 2019 at 11:13pm
But noooo: "I gonna try guys without noses for a while and see how it goes"
No joke
Aug 20, 2019 at 4:55am
It's said that you're the average of your five most frequent companions.
Sometimes, four out of those five are the same person. Who may be a f*ckwit. Which makes you...eighty percent f*ckwit. Yeah.
Choose better company.
Not better than the f*ckwit - that's too easy. Better than you, and even better than what you think you deserve. People who'll force you to raise your game, just to keep up. Not ones that validate you and make you feel good all the time.
If you are never uncomfortable, you never need to change. No point.
This is the little death.
It's said that social anxiety is the crippling fear of being judged. Which is ironic, because everyone judges, all the time. And anxious people are judged very harshly. I came to that epiphany the hard way, after decades of misery and loneliness. It's no coincidence that many older humans are happier and more content.
Those people care less about the opinions of others. And choose their company more wisely.
Anonymous
Aug 20, 2019 at 10:00am
Maybe its just an act?
Once bitten twice shy.
Inside your never change, apperances can be deceiving.
Some people dont get the good anymore.
You know..
Aug 20, 2019 at 5:13pm
but you choose to stay with him.
You will
Aug 22, 2019 at 12:14am
You'll still there. You'll find your way back home. When you do you'll be wiser. You'll trust yourself more. Maybe that's all you ever really needed.
You knew too
Aug 22, 2019 at 7:59am
And did nothing .
So what are we saying then?
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