Fat middle aged woman

posted September 16th, 2019 at 10:16 PM

Everyone thinks I’m a lesbian. I dress very casual and look masculine. Happily married many years to a man, I love the looks when I say husband. But it doesn’t bother me at all. Just remember not to judge so fast on outward appearances. Many of us are different from the stereotype.

10 Comments

Sister

Sep 17, 2019 at 1:23pm

Good on you. You are an inspiration to all.

Maybe...perhaps...

Sep 17, 2019 at 1:39pm

that you're so deep in the closet that everyone can see it but you?

@maybe

Sep 17, 2019 at 3:26pm

Ironic. You STILL think she’s a lesbian.lol.

@maybe perhaps

Sep 17, 2019 at 6:27pm

Riiight. Because being in my sixties is being in the closet? Why would I be? In this day and age there isn't any stigma attached to being a lesbian. You just vilified exactly what I posted. Can’t be masculine looking without being “deep in the closet”.

Why the down votes?

Sep 17, 2019 at 6:31pm

She's posting something positive yet some yobs are too bored so they decide to down vote this confession

Just Imagine

Sep 17, 2019 at 10:04pm

Guys taking the OP's statements to heart,and starting to chat up butch looking women- hoping for a date.
I imagine the lesbians won't like it much,but hey....we're "not to judge so fast on outward appearances"
Right?
No?

@@maybe perhaps

Sep 18, 2019 at 1:30pm

Trying really hard to fight this one, huh? Is that because you're really deep in there, filled with homophobia?

Middle aged?

Sep 18, 2019 at 1:31pm

You said you're middle aged, now you say you're in your 60s. What else is not lining up?

Re: Middle aged?

Sep 19, 2019 at 12:29pm

Hey Ignoramus, science & better health has made it so that the GenX & Mills are going to live to their 120-130s, so 60s is at least middle aged if not at the end of the young years.