No more "nice guys"

I went on a date last night with a "nice guy", at least that's what his profile said!! "Nice guys", why do you call yourself that when you're anything but???? Seething resentment and snapping over all polite conversation is nice? Tearing into your food pretending it's the waiter's head is nice? It's a bs persona and clearly a disguise for guys who wanna wear the title and show none of the actions. I'm skipping over profiles with "nice guy" bs mention. If you were really a nice guy, you wouldn't need to say it!!!

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Anonymous

Sep 14, 2019 at 11:45pm

You should never believe what anyone says about themselves. Most people think they're something, when they are nothing. People deceive themselves all the time.

renice -v

Sep 15, 2019 at 3:35am

“Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't.” - Margaret Thatcher
Bit of a cliche, the "nice" thing.
At one point a while ago, someone I recently met, mentioned that she had a really creepy multi-year stalker problem. I brought her a steel pipe as a gift, to keep by the side of the bed. She was like, and what if I hit you with it by mistake? I said I'd take that chance...
So, clearly, I'm not a nice person. I care deeply, but strictly about very, very few beings. And for them, I'll burn down the universe until there's nothing left. No half measures and I'm obviously quite unreasonable. Rational, yes - to a fault. Sensible, not so much.
Definitely not nice.
But it always makes me laugh when people claim that. Bad people do good things, good people do bad things, and smart people do dumb things. Happens all the time.
"Nice" has no meaning, or else it means whatever you want.

Anonymous

Sep 15, 2019 at 3:44am

Haha every time anyone describes themselves as "nice" it's basically a red flag that the person's an absolute rotter.

I'd rather tell a woman I'm an absolute pig. Then I have a chance to surprise her when I'm actually being nice to her, or whatever it is that makes women go for men.

Men and women are designed to wind each other up. There's no such thing as a 100% happy relationship in terms of never arguing etc. I think arguing and tension come with the territory.

"Nice" guys tend to be manipulative passive aggressive types at least, or behind doors even worse - overbearing monsters.

Anonymous

Sep 15, 2019 at 6:04am

Let's be real.
nice guys are NICE guys because...
they aren't ATTRACTIVE guys and they aren't RICH guys.
and who cares if they are also SMART guys or FUNNY guys.
when women say "I like funny guys" or "I like smart guys" they still need to have that ATTRACTIVE qualifier first.
maybe the nice guys aren't very nice. not a surprise. hurt is a cycle. winners keep winning, losers keep losing.

Hmmmmm

Sep 15, 2019 at 8:43am

For the guy to be upset on a date,I'd bet good money that the OP over represented herself on her profile Most likely by using old photos and lying in the profile.
Back in the day I met quite a few women via online dating, and only a couple looked anything like their profile pix.

Online dating is horrible

Sep 15, 2019 at 9:07am

I realize some people do actually meet and fall in love online but it takes a lot of inner strength and incredible patience to keep plugging away.
After realizing the that it's a cesspool out there, I'm sticking with meeting people the old-fashioned way (you know, organically as it happens)
If I don't meet anyone that's OK too, very content in my single life.

Bahaha...

Sep 15, 2019 at 10:20am

I dont online date..lol
First.
You never know whos showing up. The real person or the made up person they invented online. ( Their Profile) Lol
Then having to
listening to the person talk on and on about themselves all evening. Boring Lastly, Who's going to pay for dinner?
Dutch..lol
Cant be bothered.

Typical

Sep 15, 2019 at 12:35pm

So many guys who claim to be so nice are harbouring a massive amount of anger towards women. When you get down to talking with one of these self-proclaimed nice guys, they often exude bitterness and self pity. Not nice at all. Of course when they get rejected by a woman, it never occurs to them that it has anything to do with their attitude; it’s just because women are so awful. That way they can continue to wallow in their bitterness instead of acknowledging the real reason why they’re alone.

It said “nice guy” on his profile

Sep 15, 2019 at 3:13pm

and you fell for it. Bravo

Anonymous

Sep 15, 2019 at 11:09pm

A man that is kind, respectful, generous, honest and courageous may not be nice at times. Nice is easy and strictly surface, but a good man is good to the bone.
What is hard about Vancouver is you need to weed and sift through shit before you find someone of substance.

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