Strip Clubs

Women always get so weird about them! Why? I'm the only one of my friends who is genuinely cool with my guy going to a strip club occasionally. And it's not just to be the 'cool' wife, it's just harmless. He tells me all about it after, he's not getting dances all the time, and he's not the weirdo showing up in sweatpants, and not getting off in those sweatpants, and he comes home to me ready to go. Thanks ladies! I mean, I do always start a conversation about whether they seemed to like their job or not, and ask how he would feel if they didn't - because, morally, I have huge issues if that's the case and think he should, too - but otherwise, there are worse things he could be doing, amiright?


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If you're so cool with it

Sep 6, 2019 at 10:28am

why don't you go with him?

I have...

Sep 6, 2019 at 10:57am

... known strippers, and known women who liked strip clubs, and known men who liked strip clubs. I went a few times when I was younger, didn't really enjoy it that much.

People who are uptight are uptight about all sorts of things. Going to a strip club in 2019 should not be a big issue. If it is a big issue, that is a red flag, you're dealing with a neurotic.


Sep 6, 2019 at 11:20am

Yeah yeah. You are so cool. Look how cool you are! I cant stand it when women make a big deal about how cool they are with strip clubs. No one cares.

Strip Clubs....

Sep 6, 2019 at 12:07pm

are still allowed to exist in this day and age ?

@I have

Sep 6, 2019 at 12:38pm

A neurotic or an oppressive authoritarian personality who's life work is containing everything they don't like while not realising they have little of the power they believe they have and opinions are mostly irrelevant.


Sep 6, 2019 at 1:17pm

What weird responses to this post. I think the op made an interesting observation, I don't have a problem with my boyfriend going to strip clubs, I go with him sometimes, it can be entertaining. I'm surprised it's even a big deal anymore.

Not my thing

Sep 6, 2019 at 1:54pm

I have no problem with someone watching porn or going to the strip club. I do it too sometimes for fun or out of curiosity. I wouldn't really mind if my guy does that. It's mostly harmless as you say, and way better than cheating. That said, I'm not really into these things, and I wouldn't want to be with someone who's into them either. It's like alcohol, smoking, partying, etc. Some people are into that, some aren't. Couples have different boundaries: some people are into open relationships and non-monogamy, some aren't. What's important is to respect the boundaries of your partner and your relationship. I'm ok with my guy doing these things occasionally with friends or me but if he goes there as a hobby, it would turn me off. I also don't like men who thumb up pictures of women in bathing suits, or openly flirt with other people while in a relationship. I don't do that because I feel that it's overly sexual and disrespectful to my partner. I don't "like" pictures of hot dudes, and don't flirt with other men (except as a joke), and I want a partner with similar values.

Strip clubs

Sep 6, 2019 at 1:56pm

Whats the big hipe?
Expensive drinks, dirty women.
Dirty men getting their rocks off on the dirty women.
Im not a prude been to both male and female strip clubs, but not my cup of tea.
The dance music is very cool though.
But I'd rather be at a dance club jamming out.
Cause we all know what horney men want at the strip club? The Pussy. Lol

Irma la Douce

Sep 6, 2019 at 3:05pm

You are saying it is immoral to support someone who doesn't like his or her job. I would guess that most people don't like their job.

I just wish

Sep 6, 2019 at 3:19pm

That there were male strip clubs, like in Portland. I suppose Pumpjack does have the shower night....but those are usually fat old bears, but a dedicated strip club where hot slender dudes take it ALL off would be so cool!

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