Dude or No Dude?

This bothers me, but I'm not sure why .So here is my tail of woe: For about the last 10 years or so, p eople i don't know and some i do..,will say something like this- " The Dude" ! " you look like the dude"! At first i didn't have a clue who The "Dude" was, as i had not seen" The Big Lebowski". At that time, there was no internet or anything, so i could not find something about the " Dude". It still happens, men ,women, total strangers, have said this to me. Now, of course i know the movie " The Big Lebowski "( ive still never seen it) but, i dont know if its a good thing or a bad thing, when somebody says that to me. I really don't. Something happened 8 or 9 years ago. I wont go into details, but i did think " Do women like the Big Lebowski"? I STILL dont know what to think , when i hear it.. Maybe im just sick of it and need a haircut or something, ...then it happens again. I confess as im getting older, i dont think i want to be called the Big Lebowski anymore Lol


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just watch the damn movie

Oct 21, 2019 at 10:13am

The Dude is a likable character in a cult film, being compared to him isn't like being told you look like Frank Reynolds or Hannibal Lecter. You obviously have shaggy hair and a beard and look like a laid back hippy. Either watch the movie to understand what's been eating you for a decade, ignore it or clean yourself up.

Getting worked up over the comparison is very un-Dudelike.

Seriously Dude

Oct 21, 2019 at 1:13pm

It' s on Prime Video. Watch it.

How can you say, "( ive still never seen it) but, i dont know if its a good thing or a bad thing, "

Maybe if you saw it you could make a choice.


Oct 21, 2019 at 1:35pm

just get a shave and a haircut if it bugs you so much

Smart guy

Oct 22, 2019 at 3:11am

I believe it refers to a character in the movie...or something about a cock

I'm a woman

Oct 22, 2019 at 12:23pm

and The Big Lebowski is in my top ten.
Can't beat Midnight Run and Shawshank though. ;)


Oct 22, 2019 at 1:57pm

It's not a compliment. The Dude is chill af, sure, but a total slob with pretty much nothing going on in his life to redeem him.


Oct 22, 2019 at 4:40pm

...not cool to troll, man!


Oct 22, 2019 at 9:36pm

Im only being honest dude.


Oct 22, 2019 at 10:06pm

Just watch it already.


Oct 22, 2019 at 10:41pm

Watch that movie. It’s a great study of character and philosophy. If ppl are saying you are Dude like that is indeed a compliment. It means you’re laid back, abide well with most ppl but you’re not a doormat, just a good guy

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