I made a horrible joke

and she decided that was the tipping point for her. She didn't want to see me anymore. I felt like shit for making her feel so bad. I made myself feel like shit too because I realized that "joke" was against my values as well. Our connection was so special and I just can not stop thinking about her. I know I should move on with life, but the reality is that I rather live with this pain because it reminds me of her.

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Is this?

Oct 14, 2019 at 9:08am

Just a bad joke?

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Dude!

Oct 14, 2019 at 9:30am

Man up. If she was that sensitive, it was just a matter of time before she started judging you into submission. Be happy to be free of such rigid thinkers.

Get over it

Oct 14, 2019 at 9:36am

Your connection wasn't that special if she could leave you over some tasteless joke.

You don't need...

Oct 14, 2019 at 10:16am

... narrow-minded censors in your life.

Let it go

Oct 14, 2019 at 10:18am

we all make mistakes and say or do stupid things in our own lives. If it’s not meant to be, then it’s not meant to be. Just let it go. Let go of those thoughts and get down to so called reality.

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Make it up to her

Oct 14, 2019 at 10:27am

Fight for her

You "made"?

Oct 14, 2019 at 11:49am

Or told.

So, don't worry about it when you get out of grade school you'll be fine.

Contagious

Oct 14, 2019 at 2:26pm

You being like so many before, seeing me as not human, was no different, but somehow this time rubbed off on me, and I believed it. Began seeing and treating everyone else the same. But, I was wrong. Everyone is not like you. It's time to remember that. Remember the goodness within and out there.

You’re mistaken

Oct 14, 2019 at 3:06pm

Sorry to break it to you but it wasn’t just the joke. No one breaks up with someone just because of one joke, even if it’s tasteless or offensive. Unless of course they just weren’t that into that person in the first place. Time for you to learn from this hurt and move forward in your life.

i think

Oct 14, 2019 at 4:45pm

you should just let it go. everyone has said things they later wish they didn't say - even her its safe to say. if that was a deal breaker for her than it probably wouldn't have ever worked anyway.

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