At a loss
posted October 7th, 2019 at 8:07 PM
Does he really love me? I’m confused. Comes home from work and spends hours on the computer. I am invisible. Doesn’t care what I have to say. Expects me to reply to every thought that rolls off his tongue and I get dead silence when I speak, unless he wants to change the subject and hear himself talk. Oh my god the more I type the more I realise it’s not me that he wants, it’s probably the idea of having a girlfriend and it doesn’t matter who. I’m so stupid.
22 Comments
Post a CommentBeen there
Oct 7, 2019 at 9:15pm
Get out. You deserve someone who wants to be with you, not just someone who keeps you around as an emotional support animal
What's the Word?
Oct 7, 2019 at 9:52pm
I would like to know what he's talking about, and what you're talking about. You two are obviously not on the same subject matter. If I were to venture a guess, one of you thinks that the other person's subject is of things that are rather trivial, and one of you thinks that the other person's subject is just a bunch of hogwash. If you can't engage, then go away.
Girlfriend?
Oct 8, 2019 at 3:55am
Sounds more like robo-doll
DTMFA
Oct 8, 2019 at 4:42am
Now, before wasting any more of your life.DTMFA
Not stupid
Oct 8, 2019 at 5:11am
just human, but he doesn't feel the same about you so it's time to move on. Be brave and good luck!
Yuuup
Oct 8, 2019 at 6:17am
Sounds like an ex of mine. I didn't even get an "I love you" until we were breaking up and that was three years into it.
I also showed interest in activities he was interested in and he would put up a fuss if I suggested something. Would even show up to watch me play a particular sport.
Being in a relationship like that starts getting lonely.
Mojita
Oct 8, 2019 at 8:41am
Time to go!
Been there too
Oct 8, 2019 at 9:57am
Not a good sign. If you can't sit down and talk things out then it's best just to end it. It's not worth the emotional turmoil this causes.
Posts like this give me hope
Oct 8, 2019 at 10:15am
I am single and wonder if I will always be single. But posts like this show that, regardless how unfit someone might be for a relationship, they can always find another person to con into being with them. I'm not naturally manipulative or abusive but if those are traits that people in some relationships have, I am willing to learn.
We all feel stupid
Oct 8, 2019 at 4:51pm
But its not you!
Men like the one u are refering
Are non caring, selfish, self centered morons. With no respect for women
Common respect works both ways and
If its always one way or one sided, Whats the point ?
You are not a door mat and what you have to say matters.
Maybe you should find someone new, that will listen to you!!
Current Man? Sounds like a Rude Ass.
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