Relieved sighposted October 18th, 2019 at 5:46 PM Nothing in my life made sense until I started really digging for the roots of my problems. No one to blame for the way things turned out, they are what they are. But it’s such a relief to have figured it out. Show 10 Comments 10 Comments Post a Comment In VainOct 18, 2019 at 7:00pmWhatever, or whoever planted the seeds for the roots to grow is to blame. It doesn't matter if things are what they are. What only matters now is if you intend to keep things that way or not. If you intend to keep things the way they are, then you are to blame. If you don't intend to keep things the way they are, then you won't be to blame should they remain the same. If someone put the effort in for you, it's up to you to validate to them whether or not their effort was in vain. No one wants, or needs their effort to be in vain. Not you. Not them. The Roots huhOct 18, 2019 at 9:04pmWhat kind of shovel did you use?And did you make that purchase from Home Depot?Where did you put all the dirt after you dug up your roots ?Was it messy ?I'm in the market for a shovel, that why I'm asking :) when life gives you lemons...Oct 18, 2019 at 9:42pmOne of the few self-aware confessions I've read for awhile. You are on the right path, the path of self-responsiblity. Good job!I am a firm believer that you can take charge of your life once you stop blaming others for all the shitty things that has happened to you.Upon this self-discovery, I hope you live a good, happy life, fellow human being. GoodOct 18, 2019 at 10:48pmJust as long as you're relieved, that's all that matters. Not meant to beOct 18, 2019 at 11:43pmWhat could have been, what should have been, but didn't happen, eh? Perhaps you should call one of those late night radio show psychologists, and get their advice. @Relieved Si(n)ghOct 19, 2019 at 1:17pmWhat will relieve me is when the NDP wins. The NDP (actually their predecessor - the CCF) are the ones who first introduced Universal Health Care when the Tommy Douglas CCF won the Saskatchewan provincial election back in the day. Study how much better people are doing in the Scandinavian countries with the rule of Democratic Socialism. Vote smart people & let's get there. Hell YaOct 20, 2019 at 5:32amTheres someone to blame.YOU!Its Always been You!Case Closed @In VainOct 21, 2019 at 7:26amOP here. There’s a lot of blame-throwing on these boards. Specifically, blame cast on confessors. I had hoped to pre-empt any casting of blame or finger-pointing by stating no one is to blame. To say nothing of future actions, which was not the point here. Good to know you’re still reading though :) @@In VainOct 21, 2019 at 6:16pmGood to know you still haven't grown up enough to take accountability for yourself. Who cares.Oct 25, 2019 at 6:51amSomeone posted a thought because it was a needed to be said thing. Sure maybe another should have herd this also, but who cares this person wasn't ready yet if ever. Live in your own issue bubble let others sort out theiers. LOAD MORE Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?