addictionposted November 10th, 2019 at 9:18 AM my ex chose their addiction over our relationship. they're in denial. "they can quit any time," "they have it under control," and "it's not a big deal." i'm finding it hard to accept. i'll accept it eventually, but for now, it just hurts. Show 1 Comments 1 Comments Post a Comment Same HereNov 10, 2019 at 10:40pmExcept those weren’t his excuses. He went on the offensive and just insulted me because he had no argument. It’s pathetic. It’s super sad and I miss him but the abuse and the mood swings from coming off of whatever booze and drugs are floating in his system is exhausting. From someone going through something similar, take care of yourself and know that letting the person go is the right thing to do. People change when they want to. Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?