Love Sucks

I’m in love with a man who hates me. I’m not really sure he ever loved me back. It’s so strange to have come to this point and have to come to terms with it. It’s awful and it’s all I can think about. So much trauma. So much pain. So much love that just feels wasted.

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He hates you?

Nov 12, 2019 at 10:36am

Then you must have done some kind of nasty betrayal to him when you weren't loving him. Too busy loving yourself, with someone else perhaps? Maybe you still are if nothing has changed.

Don't worry

Nov 12, 2019 at 10:50am

Your ego will move on to someone else, I'm sure.

bolt

Nov 12, 2019 at 11:42am

don't get hooked on the feeling you get now. it happens.

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Well...

Nov 12, 2019 at 1:56pm

... I'm ugly, I have a facial deformity, and I am also poor, so I haven't been on a date in years. If a woman has to serve me at the grocery store, 9/10 times she won't even put the money into my hand. I shave, wear clean clothes, but I am deformed, so they act rudely.

I don't even know if it's conscious, like, are they aware that they're rude? I suspect that if I were to collect evidence I could go to the human rights tribunal and say "it makes me feel less human as a disfigured person when the woman puts the money into the guy before me's hand, but he just drops it into my hand."

Like, they will drop money, it will fall on the floor or the counter, and then they act like it's my fault, and they won't even come to pick it up.

So, if you're a woman with an abusive man, I have no sympathy for you, dear. The world is handed to you on a platter. Ditch him and find another man. There's always another man for a woman.

But if you stick with him, even tho he abuses you, I've never raised a hand to a woman in my life. If I find a spider inside, I get a cup and a piece of paper and put it outside. But you don't want a man like me, because I'm not a nice fashion accessory to hang on your arm.

So, enjoy the men you select, enjoy that you are bred and raised to find domineering assholes with strong features attractive, and to find nice men like me, who have slight facial deformities unattractive. Be proud that you are attracted to men who hate you.

I don't really hate anyone, I'm disabled, I'm not smart enough to do that, I just bumble around. I found out recently that I'm gonna die in my mid 50s more than likely. So, you know, just consider how good you have it, compared with me.

I'm gonna die in my 50s after women are mean to me at the store all the time. It's obvious. If I call them on it, they'll just scream "RAPE!" or something because they know they're doing it, they wish men like me would die or go away, but they can't any longer just get the sadistic men to kill us while the women get wet and laugh.

Jaded

Nov 12, 2019 at 2:59pm

Did you tell him that you loved him?

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Wow

Nov 12, 2019 at 5:08pm

a couple of really butt hurt guys at the beginning.
Maybe he just used her and was hoping she'd just leave him after he finished with her and is pissed she still loves him.
There are other possibilities other than your personal-based opinionated ASSumptions.

And to the guy with the facial deformity - I can feel your pain.
While I don't have the deformity, all along my life I have had reminders both straight-forward and indirectly that I am ugly
and if a guy is interested in me, I should consider myself lucky.
Fortunately I've come to realize that I have a choice and can just stay single and not worry about some guy's opinion of me.

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@Jaded

Nov 12, 2019 at 6:09pm

More like he told her, and she callously destroyed him for it. She doesn't want to acknowledge what she did, she doesn't want to be held accountable for doing it.. She may love him in own her mind, and words, but her actions have shown him the opposite to be true.

What for?

Nov 12, 2019 at 6:20pm

I need reason to love someone, and even more reason to hate them, otherwise I don't bother to waste any feelings on them one way or another. So, what reason do you have to be in love with them, and what reason do they have to hate you?

Games Suck

Nov 12, 2019 at 6:32pm

You play games with their emotions, because you're never direct, and honest to them about yours. You're a no show. This is why they hate you, just as they should. You need to shit or get off the pot.

Not OP

Nov 12, 2019 at 7:34pm

Damn, the call and response on this thread speaks volumes. Sorry about the rough human relations y’all are experiencing. Take care of yourselves and each other!

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