Poly busy

Thought in would be great to have a few men at a time.Turns out its way more work then I could have imagined.All the amazing sex is not as passionate as one would hope and I’m getting tired of driving to them at their convenient.


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Nov 7, 2019 at 6:42pm

Sucks to be you. I’ll come to you if you wanna add to your harem, because what sucks more is being sexless


Nov 7, 2019 at 6:48pm

Thought IT. Convenience! Space between sentences. They aren't having sex with you for the brains!


Nov 7, 2019 at 7:55pm

Potemkin puritanical Vancouver will largely vote this down.

News flash

Nov 7, 2019 at 8:29pm

Amazing sex is more amazing when you're in love.


Nov 7, 2019 at 8:48pm

You have the wrong idea if you think being polyamorous is about sex with multiple partners. It's not.


Nov 7, 2019 at 9:00pm

Sounds like a great wife material

Poly doesn't mean elevated

Nov 7, 2019 at 11:01pm

It generally just means selfish. It's not the rule, but even poly friends of mine admit the poly field is lousy with flakes. It's rare to find anyone emotionally available for one SO, let alone more than one.

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Nov 7, 2019 at 11:12pm

Multitasking means doing much more than is optimal, and doing it all badly. (paraphrased for brevity)
I've never been able to manage more than two, but women usually require more time and effort. One is plenty for me, generally. The occasional guest star is fun, but strictly optional.
Wouldn't know what getting hit with a proverbial bag of d*cks is like, but a friend finds the experience occasionally rewarding. Very occasionally - she's mostly a serial monogamist (albeit with a very long series). Or a "thirsty slut", if you prefer the derogatory term. She's been called worse, mostly by other women.
She's lovely and kind, pretty, young, very socially conscious, lots of fun, but flighty and impulsive. For most of a year, she was f*cking her way across another continent. Now seems to have settled on one dude she likes especially well (haha).
I love her dearly and support her in that journey (we're not each other's "type").
Worry not. 'Tis better to have f*cked and left, than never to have f*cked at all.


Nov 8, 2019 at 6:30am

could at least pitch in for fuel.

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Nov 8, 2019 at 9:34am

There is nothing romantic about how you described that. I’d way rather find one person to share my life with.

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