Dont know

I know 2 girls. The first one, i had a great relationship with. We split up on good terms, kept in touch, still love eachother. BUT.. she doesnt know where her future will lead. The second girl, i have so much respect for. Im pretty sure, if it wasnt for the first girl and the left over feelings, i would probably have just as strong of feelings for her as i do the first. I need to make a decision. I feel like the local girl is a good option, because shes awesome and theres no location issues. Bit then i think about it, and i love the girl thats on the other side of the world better Then i think the local girl is more reliable, Then i wonder if i would stay loyal to the local girl if the other came back. Dont have the slightest clue how to proceed.

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Let the local girl go.

Dec 5, 2019 at 11:14am

"I feel like the local girl is a good option."

That would be a punch in my gut if I was her.

Please, do everyone a favour and let your "option" find someone who feels as passionately about her as you do about the person you truly love. The answer is clear as day.

Girls are not options.

Dec 5, 2019 at 11:52am

Your best way to proceed is to be honest with both. And stop acting like your own feelings are the only ones that matter.

Anonymous

Dec 5, 2019 at 11:54am

Stop talking to Long-Distance Girl, unless you plan to have a future with her. You will never move on otherwise. Local Girl might not be for you, but no one will if you don't get Long-Distance Girl out of your head.

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Blue persuasion

Dec 5, 2019 at 1:14pm

While it's cool to be on good terms with former loves, sometimes we have to make the call to limit or cut contact with them (with as much kindness as possible, of course) in order to give ourselves permission to close chapters of our lives.

Correct me if I'm wrong, OP, but it sounds like the long-distance girl is not choosing you. However, with the door not being fully closed and the strong emotional tie still being present, your heart seems to be naturally gravitating toward her.

Consider how people artfully use space to create longing and desire.

While your post suggests that you have the agency of choosing between two people, is that really true? Or, unbeknownst to you, has the choice already been made for you?

Perhaps, at least for now, you should consider choosing you.

Choose

Dec 5, 2019 at 1:18pm

Move to be with the long distance girl OR commit to the local girl and let long distance girl go.

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Wilson Lovelorn

Dec 5, 2019 at 1:58pm

"Came in from a rainy Thursday on the avenue...thought I heard you calling softly..."

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I think

Dec 5, 2019 at 2:31pm

You should stay with your chubby wife.
You already made you choice a long time ago.
As if you have "two other options on the go".
Bahaha
Give your stupid head a shake.
OK.

Stupid is trying to

Dec 5, 2019 at 4:53pm

CONVINCE ME I'm not in control. Shake your head over that onev.

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Now Stupid is me.

Dec 5, 2019 at 7:05pm

Local girl, long distance girl. I give no shits. It's Sugar Cube my control word see taking it from her doesn't actual change it's power. Genius sometimes I wonder, see Svgar Cvbes control word is derived from my love for her. I've set up a ghost account for you start putting back all you stole from us. Her messages from go back in there or shit just gets worst for you dumbass. Stavting tonight. I should hear from you soon. I'll bet.

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@wilsonlovelorn

Dec 5, 2019 at 7:07pm

Where am or was I where are you. This is much unsettling, I've been trying so hard to find you not sure if you have any idea. Lots of really serious shit of starnge nature.

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