I feel annoyed

I'm mostly annoyed with myself mind you. It's the end of yet another first date. Once again, my date sweetly insists he walk me to my car. That's very kind thank you but it's unnecessary. I am perfectly safe - I also prefer you not know what kind of car I drive, but I appreciate the sentiment. Albeit I'm far happier to walk you to your car to feel like I've done my duty in keeping you safe. Heh, don't worry I recognize the, what is that, irony? Okay so sure he walks me to my car and then I turn to say here's my car and thanks again for tonight...and I don't even want to look, but oh, yep, there it is. That Look. Come on! This is a first date man! I've spent what? An hour or longer getting a general first impression of you. And now you are giving me That Look. The look that says I want to kiss you aka exchange bodily fluids with you. Are you serious? I've spent more one on one time with my dentist but that doesn't mean I'm making out with him. Instead, I give you a hug and thank you again for the evening. I berate myself on my car ride home, did I do the wrong thing? Was I supposed to kiss him? It felt nice hugging him and that seemed an appropriate progression of physical cues. Kissing though? Hell no. I need more time for my body to get accustomed to being around someone in a neutral way before even considering that level of intimacy. I have to wonder though if everyone moves at their own pace and perhaps this too is a litmus test for compatibility.

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Damn

Jan 27, 2020 at 12:40am

You are a nightmare.

Weeweemcfleesy

Jan 27, 2020 at 2:00am

Fair enough people move at different paces you weren’t in the wrong at all it’s chill dude

First date

Jan 27, 2020 at 2:24am

Must have been a dud.
Cause if your date was hot and you were attracted to them.
I think you may have wanted a kiss or a hug.
So ya, Next on a second date.
Wont be one.. Lol
You didnt even want to hug them.
No attraction there !!
Apparently.

You are..

Jan 27, 2020 at 5:22am

... A cold fish.

Smart move...

Jan 27, 2020 at 6:31am

...listen up ladies.

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Yeah

Jan 27, 2020 at 9:21am

It’s nice to know someone’s horny for you just after one hour together. But you know what? Everyone wants something from you. The govt wants more of your tax money. Your employer wants you to worker longer with less pay and benefits. Social media wants endless amounts of your attention. And so it goes, this guy wants something from you. Never, and I do mean never, feel obligated to a man for anything physical or sexual. You didn’t want to kiss him, correct. Listen to yourself. That’s all you need.

BTW J

Jan 27, 2020 at 9:35am

Your welcome she has no choice now. She has to prove she is not a whimp. Be nice. I hate you now I think OP

As your Dr.

Jan 27, 2020 at 9:37am

You've got a light case of analysis paralysis.

Jose

Jan 27, 2020 at 12:15pm

I feel bad for whoever ask you out on a date.

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So do I

Jan 27, 2020 at 1:29pm

She is such a bullshitter.

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