Incompatibility

I confess that one of the final nails in the coffin was the incompatible belief systems between us. I had managed to push down the revulsion I frequently felt when they would express blatantly sexist or racist behaviour, although they would claim to be “just kidding”, because so many other things about the relationship were great. But the staunch support they had for that monster down south was a definite tipping point. I just cannot understand how any decent person can support someone who is so obviously completely corrupt and morally repugnant. To me that indicates a truly problematic character flaw, and that feeling added to the other issues was eating away at me to the point where I just couldn’t ignore it any longer. Some things are simply too important to deny.

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It felt like

Jan 31, 2020 at 6:56pm

you were talking about my ex. Hot in bed tho. Oh well ..too bad.

Anonymous

Jan 31, 2020 at 11:47pm

I think he is corrupt and morally repugnant, but he is also transparent, which is a change from all the others that have come before him that were corrupt and morally repugnant, but hid it behind flowery language and empty promises.

Oh My

Feb 1, 2020 at 1:10am

"But the staunch support they had for that monster down south.... I just cannot understand how any decent person can support someone who is so obviously completely corrupt and morally repugnant."
You should look into the Clinton Foundation and how they accepted tens of millions every year, how she fomented civil war in Libya, sold arms to ISIS linked groups, she had an illegal email account not scrutinized by lawmakers and then deleted it- and then lied about it.
I could go on.

You can accommodate many things in a relationship

Feb 1, 2020 at 4:55am

And it’s an important part of a good relationship that it’s adaptable and can cope with differences but supporting that monster “down south” is an absolute deal breaker under any circumstances. FFS talk about the reddest of red flags!

He's not a politician

Feb 2, 2020 at 10:45pm

He's God's anointed, and you need to behave like a proper woman as Almighty God commands you to in the Bible.

So disappointing

Feb 3, 2020 at 4:26am

It's too bad the US voters care more about the prosperity they're getting than a bunch of unproven allegations and slanderous opinions about the person giving them the prosperity. But what can you expect from the inbreds down south. They just care more about actions than appearances apparently.

@so disappointing

Feb 3, 2020 at 3:14pm

Sure. Anything is okay as long as prosperity is the result for the chosen ones, right? The end justifies the means? This is exactly the thought process my ex used. Markets were up! So, “being a sexist, racist, lying, cheating, scumbag is fine, because he’s making me more money”, should be the mantra of all of his supporters then. That attitude says as much about people who support him as it does about him. Your priorities are seriously f’kd.

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