Looking me up and down

I have to laugh. So many can relate.. But then why is it still so uncomfortable. I have a sister in law who i love. I cant stand it however that whenever i stand up from thw couch or come up the stairs or come over how she always looks my body up and down. Last weekend i was thinking oh god i dont want to get up from the couch because will she do that fucking weird thing again ?!? I got up and sure enough I get the body scan. Someone tell me what the fuck is up with this? I dress appropriate. Im in good shape. I dont have boob spillage No booty shorts No thong showing What is she looking for.. Lol

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Maybe...

Jan 16, 2020 at 12:14pm

she's admiring your look and how put together you are? Best to ask outright sometime when it's just the 2 of you and use some humor so it's not too weird.

Agreed...

Jan 16, 2020 at 12:17pm

Just ask. Next time you see them do the body scan, ask them "Do I have something on me?" add a laugh so it's not awkward. Either they will tell you the truth, or they might be more mindful of how they are looking at you.

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Maybe....

Jan 16, 2020 at 1:26pm

She might be gay.

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Darla McWin

Jan 16, 2020 at 2:46pm

How about coming to the realization that the world outside you is "as it is" and maybe not how you'd like it to be? That includes other people.
Counting on things - including people - that are out in the world to provide you with some infinitely supportive emotional state is - to be brutally honest - something children do. A great number of adults never seem to get out of that phase.
It's not a good look on an adult, or on someone who is accountable and takes ownership of their outlook on life. It is curious to me that in a society so ingrained with the idea of individualism, so many people look outside themselves to find "support".
To rely on others to "be there for you" or to provide a shoulder makes your emotional life contingent on others and I can think of no better way of making oneself overly fragile to the indifference of the other 7.5 billion people that surround them.
Maybe the world doesn't, can't and won't ever exist to make you happy.
Maybe that's kind of the 'heavy lifting' that comes with maturity; it's on you to create the world you want to live in - the one in your head.
The only possession you'll be left with on that fateful day you pass on from life is how you consider you've lived it.
It really is in you to live as you like, just don't expect applause...

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It is a sign

Jan 16, 2020 at 3:39pm

That she thinks you are tasty.

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Jealousy

Jan 16, 2020 at 4:11pm

Pure and simple.

The insecure do this to me all the time. I’m not showing any skin. I’m dressed well for my body type. It doesn’t matter what they LOOK like. They could be old, young, thin, curvy. It’s all about how you make them FEEL. They’re comparing/admiring/seething about your head-to-toeness. Just keep doing what you’re doing and carry on. Ask them if they like what they see to draw attention to their gawking!

@Darla

Jan 16, 2020 at 7:44pm

Who the hell pissed in your cereal this morning? Whatta Grump!

@Darla

Jan 17, 2020 at 10:19am

I use whiskey in the cereal its better.
P.s. The issue is merely i cant squeak out a fart without this woman noticing. Holding the fart in i know standing up its going to go out. Feeling uncomfortable to stand up and just move without being body scanned is fucking mortifying and i needed some human advice because i am human !! It took me 2 years of this to finally get the guts to ask for advice and comments so i dont do so within my network of friends because that would be toxic. Brown nosing. And gossip ! Thank you

Hmmm

Jan 17, 2020 at 2:34pm

I bet this story and the responses would be different if your sis in law was a guy instead. After re-reading this rant, not a confession, I think either your sis in law has the hots for you or she is looking down on you as you didn’t mention if she’s the same size and shape as you for comparison. Next time, I’d flash her a boob and ask if she wants to see more. Must admit I think your family is screwed up but just a thought.

Dear hmm

Jan 17, 2020 at 3:58pm

I am french candian. Hour glass shape. Big derierre nice n plump since i was a baby!
As for the chest your average 6.
Shes got a new moms body. I look for the spirit in people. Not what they drive where they work the size of their rock or what they wear. Its a shame. It is fucked up agreed. Thanks for input

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