Better lonely than cruel

How you were brought up can teach you about parenting. It taught me I would never want to risk turning into my parents. I'm in love with a woman who is a mother. But if she ever came around to feel the same I'd turn her down anyway because I'd never want to raise a child.

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Child free

Feb 13, 2020 at 4:41pm

There are women out there that also desire to be child free. Keep looking

You're not in love then

Feb 13, 2020 at 9:20pm

Don't get hung up on a lie. If you really loved her and she loved you back and you didn't want to be a parent, you'd both find a way to make it work. You don't have to be the kids dad. You can have a relationship without being a parental figure. You're just using the kid as an excuse.

Step children

Feb 13, 2020 at 9:27pm

Are not easy, and I totally get you
I’m married and my step child and the ex have tried everything to make our marriage miserable....they were divorced for a very long time before I even came into the picture...and they just don’t want to see my spouse happy, it’s sad really. I can’t do anything right, I’m always the bad person etc.
If I can go back in time, knowing what I know now
I would not do it

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Yes..

Feb 14, 2020 at 6:18am

Its better you find yourself a barron women.
You sound childish and selfish.
Not parent material Im afraid, sir.
Its a tough job.
Get yourself (pussy)? cat.
Simple
You can buy cat food ?
Not afraid of that are you ?

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OTOH

Feb 14, 2020 at 9:24am

There is such a thing from taking a lesson from experience and doing things differently for others than were done for (or to) you

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Yes

Feb 14, 2020 at 12:42pm

Hardest job in the world and each child is so different, no real manual comes with them..lol
You just try your very best to give love, show them right from wrong.
Understanding, Time , Patience
We are all learning each and everyday.
Thats all you can do.
Just try.
Happy Family Day

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Anonymous

Feb 14, 2020 at 1:35pm

She's happily married, Fraid she won't be coming around.

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My dads

Feb 14, 2020 at 5:23pm

My biological father was a mean cruel physically abusive drunk, and my step father not so bad but still a jerk that made it clear I was never welcome to be my mother's child and live in our home. If I became a step father I would do everything in my ability to make my step child(s) know that they are welcome, cared for, safe, and protected as if they were my very own.

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@ Anon

Feb 14, 2020 at 5:26pm

You don't know who or what she is. Try restraining that vanity of yours. It's not about you. No one loves a narcissist.

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@ original annoypost

Feb 15, 2020 at 5:54am

You stupid..
Bahaha
Thanks @ Anon
You are wise.

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