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posted February 10th, 2020 at 4:13 AM

Now this may seem weird to most people, and some may not understand, but I think my older brother thinks "differently" of me. I have never talked to anyone about this, and he makes me feel really uncomfortable at times. I may be over-thinking this, and I mean, it honestly only probably has to do with when I was younger and he said he was told to "dry me off everywhere" after I took a bath. But then again,... last year when I was intoxicated, he grabbed onto me in an inappropriate manner. I really don't know what to do.

6 Comments

Say

Feb 10, 2020 at 12:32pm

What the fuck ?
Sounds like you feel it was wrong.
Us readers were not there.
So
Say to them
What the fuck !!
Sotuation sounds shifty to me.
Stand up for yourself.
Family can be bad too.
My advice.

Follow your instincts!

Feb 10, 2020 at 12:37pm

This DOES happen. If he’s making you feel uncomfortable, there’s a reason for it. If you can’t bring yourself to tell him yourself, just try to avoid being around him. Assuming you’re an adult in your own place? If not, then you need to do whatever it takes to keep yourself safe from him.

Anonymous

Feb 10, 2020 at 8:29pm

I'm not sure if you're an adult or a minor, or if you live in the same home as your brother or not. Is avoiding being around him, or at minimum, avoiding being alone with him, an option?

Facts

Feb 11, 2020 at 2:09pm

You really need to say something! Older or not what he is doing is wrong and you need to tell him how you feel. Don't be afraid... always ask yourself what is the worst case scenario? He gets mad and denys it? Great! He will know how you feel and back the f up! You got this, and if he responds poorly keep your distance at least he will know how you feel. Things can get worse so good luck!

It's ok to avoid your brother

Feb 11, 2020 at 10:14pm

Take your time and your space to figure this out.

Move out

Feb 13, 2020 at 11:47pm

Use your sensibility and tell him you feel uncomfortable, then fly the nest. The home can sometimes be a sick place with little privacy and space for families.