clinger

I confess I haven't had my shit together for decades.. pushing away relationships and meeting people who I actually would like, and clinging onto those I don't really care for in order to get myself together... thought, never really got myself together during that time. Decades and decades and decades... now my time has passed. I just needed someone around is worse than nobody, sometimes.

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Can I ask why??

Feb 19, 2020 at 5:44pm

You hang on to the losers or unlikeable people. I ask because it may lend understanding to my sitution. Just curious why is all it's less than sensiable.

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Life skill

Feb 19, 2020 at 5:57pm

Learn how to be comfortable with your own company. It's a very important life skill. When company becomes an option, rather than a necessity (thanks, Keanu!), your choices open up and you start to get a handle on your self-destructive/self-limiting behaviours. If you can't stand to be alone, it's because you're avoiding something. A reputable therapist can help you work through whatever it is because - and I say this from experience - it will never go away on its own. If you don't break it down by working through it, it'll be with you until you die. Try to be courageous. Choose to be your own best advocate. Make the changes you need to be emotionally healthy and the rest will fall into place. Good luck!

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Well, whiner

Feb 19, 2020 at 6:47pm

You sound like a little old lady.
It also sounds like you think it's somebody else's fault but its all on you.
Which BTW is standard issue narcissism.

Go ahead and push out the people you don't like, they'll be thrilled.

And stop whining little girl

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Anonymous

Feb 19, 2020 at 8:01pm

It’s Vancouver. Nobody has their shit together. It’s not just you.

Anyone that really cares about you will do so regardless of your (real or perceived) vulnerabilities. You don’t have to have every single piece of your life in order to be worthy of good people and good love.

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The bell is dung, the game is over

Feb 19, 2020 at 10:26pm

I'm not finished with you yet. Will you be my boyfriend?

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Dude

Feb 19, 2020 at 11:13pm

You stayed with someone just so you could get your shit together? You are a trashbag. That is so not cool. Didnt you even consider someone elses feelings? You suck as a human.

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@well, whiner

Feb 21, 2020 at 11:36am

Little old lady? How does what the Op said have anything to do with being an old woman? I actually thought the Op was a guy, but since they didn’t indicate any gender I don’t know and neither do you. I also don’t understand how anything they said indicates that they think that their situation is someone else’s fault. So I think you’re doing some major projecting here. Btw, I’m not the Op.

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your shit fell apart

Feb 21, 2020 at 12:54pm

By looks of you yesterday. I do not know what to believe and all the bullshit is done gfys all the players.ilc

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