lonely heart

I deleted all my dating apps today.. I’m tired of being treated like trash or ghosted. I’d rather be alone than just an option or an afterthought. Maybe I’ll meet someone organically... but it’s okay if I don’t, too. For the first time in a long time I know I’ll be okay alone.

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I reached a similar conclusion about a year ago.

Feb 15, 2020 at 6:48pm

Can't be with the woman i want to be with.

Tried seeing other women but it never lasted longer than 4 or 6 months because i was still hung up on the one i cant be with.

Final straw for me was being told two first dates in a row that i looked like a serial killer.

Deleted the apps and accepted that i was better off giving up.

Difference is, i know im not ok alone.

I'm two completely different people when i'm alone compared to when i have someone. I'm much more motivated, productive, and responsible when im in a real relationship. I've tried and continue to try to work on this flaw, but atm, it appears as though i'm destined for a life of solitude and alcohalism.

17 4Rating: +13

That is so shitty.

Feb 15, 2020 at 7:55pm

Don't let the assholes win, see in the case of yourself sure dump the apps I hear they're all full of dudes looking to count numbers. Still though do not give up on happiness and decided in the loneliness. Loneliness is a miserable way to live too, I can tell you I have been far too lonely for far too long and it sucks. Keep looking he's out there and he's amazing you'll find him. He won't be hard to see cause he will be nothing like the other losers. Good luck sweetheart you got this.

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Someone Treats You Like Trash?

Feb 15, 2020 at 8:29pm

I can't even get anyone to talk to me on those things.

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Thanks for the pout

Feb 15, 2020 at 10:39pm

Nothing like a little I wasn't really looking for your love anyway postings. Don't worry there's an extra day this year to choose not to get what you're probably better off without. Keep in touch...

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Anonymous

Feb 16, 2020 at 1:24am

I came out of a 7 year relationship and I've learned to love being alone. The freedom is fantastic and I can do what I enjoy not bend over backwards for someone else all the time. What sucks is people get hung up on me and it's probably for the exact reason that being happy with yourself and being independent is attractive!

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Congrats OP =)

Feb 16, 2020 at 9:37am

Being single can be great. Don't buy into the idea that you have to be in a relationship to enjoy life or grow as a person.
The most interesting people I've ever met have been single and childfree.

11 4Rating: +7

I prefer the old fashion way

Feb 16, 2020 at 7:29pm

Coming up to someone on the bus 5 inches away from their face with my bad breath & body odor without underarm deodorant wearing my tank top & Make America Great Again hat & asking the other person to buy me a coffee

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Anonymous

Feb 16, 2020 at 8:49pm

Meow.

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Thanks for the pout

Feb 17, 2020 at 5:05pm

K could pout be sad very very sad because they have lost an important piece of their life. To fear of what stupid people who care not at all for them think. Mmm. I wonder

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Is this really... No it can not be

Feb 18, 2020 at 12:27am

See that woman has a man. She got very tried of leading another one on. Then went and UPGRADED to much better and stronger less pigeon like guy. Or wait maybe I got that backwards, whatever either way she found a new super fast. No wait it took just over 2 yrs there was no one else or even prospects. So slow... oh fuck this what do I know, I'm going to the titty bar.

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