I am a mature man in his early 60's. I love to be spanked! Bare ass with a strap or a belt. No one close to me knows this, and it is a bit frustrating. Once a month I go to a professional spanker to satisfy my special needs. She pulls my pants and underwear down to my ankles and straps my bare ass until its beet red. The spanking has the desired effect on me, if you know what I mean! I wish it could not be so secret, but that's the way of it!!