oh my god, sexy time.

posted February 17th, 2020 at 3:59 PM

It's so ironic that the 20s are hormone crazy and I had trouble getting laid because I was nerdish of some variety. You know what though? I think I was afraid to be myself too. Now, in my 30s, I am meeting tons of women who are incredible on so many levels... all I had to do was be myself. As weird as I am, it's attracting them a lot more.

8 Comments

Newsflash

Feb 17, 2020 at 6:37pm

You haven't changed. You said it yourself "because I was nerdish of some variety" and then in your 30's "all I had to do was be myself"

If they're not attached by 30+, desperation begins to set in and and standards drop.

If everyone thinks they are weird, is anyone weird?

Feb 17, 2020 at 7:18pm

I always wonder how weird the people who self-describe as “weird” really are. Seems more like “I was insecure for a while and now I’m not as insecure”.

Geek USA

Feb 17, 2020 at 8:54pm

Don’t listen to the haters. Sexy 30+ nerds of VanCity, you rule!

Predictable human nature.

Feb 17, 2020 at 9:31pm

I know a lot of men who have become popular in their 30s now that women are finished with their bad boy phase and are looking for security. Funny that.

So my lol at the wrong Newsflash

Feb 17, 2020 at 10:06pm

I was never desoerate to be attached, but i've sure been desperate to be single a few times in the past.
Life's been more peaceful & fun since becoming a freedom femme.

Fake news more like

Feb 18, 2020 at 1:10pm

In reality the bar is raised the older the person is. The more confidence and understanding of what someone wants the less time will be wasted on frivolous relationships.

My Granny says

Feb 18, 2020 at 2:53pm

Those that boast aint getting Shit.
Grannys Word s
Ha
Sexy

You go get some.

Feb 18, 2020 at 4:14pm

I'm taking your lead on this Southern Comfort and lots of charming conversation am I ever hoping to be bedding me her and oh yeah her friend da what-er name. Threesome up, I have set the bar really fucking high for a guy with out sex in three years. But fuck me if I don't have a couple saw bucks that say I can do it. TAKERS ANY??? please lets make it interesting. It's only sex and rubbers will be used (Maybe) *Devious snicker and outright divergent laughing at ones self*