It's your love and whatever regulations you want to place on it for whoever you decide to place it on. The real question is; why should anyone love you in return rather than love someone else who simply accepts them as they are faults and all?

It's not a matter of whether you can or can't. You just either do or you don't. If you really have to ask yourself such a question then you probably don't love them, and are just more likely to be in lust with them.

You should never expect or ask anyone to change themselves for you, however when two people love each other compromises can be met. Encourage them gently but don't require them harshly to quit. Just have them take all the necessary measures to keep their second hand smoke away from you until they find the desire and will within themselves to quit on their own. That you should be able to tolerate and live with.

Maybe he will quit for you.
Or cut down..
I mean quit.
Puff puff.
Quit. :)

I was in love with a guy who smoked too. Although I couldn’t stand the actual smoke, I could kiss him after he smoked and it didn’t bother me. Chemistry between two people is extremely powerful.

For her in a second.

But she is spectacular

Probably, it's other things that you love about them, not their smoking habit.

its called hypocrisy

Just show him a list of some chemicals in cigarettes. If that doesn't turn him off smoking he's developmentally disabled.

Acetone—found in nail polish remover

Acetic acid—an ingredient in hair dye

Ammonia—a common household cleaner

Arsenic—used in rat poison

Benzene—found in rubber cement and gasoline

Butane—used in lighter fluid

Cadmium—active component in battery acid

Carbon monoxide—released in car exhaust fumes

Formaldehyde—embalming fluid

Hexamine—found in barbecue lighter fluid

Lead—used in batteries

Naphthalene—an ingredient in mothballs

Methanol—a main component in rocket fuel

Nicotine—used as an insecticide

Tar—material for paving roads

Toluene—used to manufacture paint

to quit and he did. I think he's glad - he feels healthier.