Smoking Paradoxposted February 15th, 2020 at 10:47 PM Can I really be in love with a smoker when the neighbor's smoke disgusts me so much? Show 15 Comments 15 Comments Post a Comment That's up to youFeb 16, 2020 at 1:03amIt's your love and whatever regulations you want to place on it for whoever you decide to place it on. The real question is; why should anyone love you in return rather than love someone else who simply accepts them as they are faults and all? You should know your own heartFeb 16, 2020 at 1:17amIt's not a matter of whether you can or can't. You just either do or you don't. If you really have to ask yourself such a question then you probably don't love them, and are just more likely to be in lust with them. When you loveFeb 16, 2020 at 1:43amYou should never expect or ask anyone to change themselves for you, however when two people love each other compromises can be met. Encourage them gently but don't require them harshly to quit. Just have them take all the necessary measures to keep their second hand smoke away from you until they find the desire and will within themselves to quit on their own. That you should be able to tolerate and live with. Puff puffFeb 16, 2020 at 3:19amMaybe he will quit for you.Or cut down..I mean quit.Puff puff.Quit. :) Yes you canFeb 16, 2020 at 9:00amI was in love with a guy who smoked too. Although I couldn’t stand the actual smoke, I could kiss him after he smoked and it didn’t bother me. Chemistry between two people is extremely powerful. I'd quitFeb 16, 2020 at 9:38amFor her in a second.But she is spectacular SureFeb 16, 2020 at 10:35amProbably, it's other things that you love about them, not their smoking habit. SimpleFeb 16, 2020 at 10:59amits called hypocrisy Ew.Feb 16, 2020 at 1:32pmJust show him a list of some chemicals in cigarettes. If that doesn't turn him off smoking he's developmentally disabled.Acetone—found in nail polish removerAcetic acid—an ingredient in hair dyeAmmonia—a common household cleanerArsenic—used in rat poisonBenzene—found in rubber cement and gasolineButane—used in lighter fluidCadmium—active component in battery acidCarbon monoxide—released in car exhaust fumesFormaldehyde—embalming fluidHexamine—found in barbecue lighter fluidLead—used in batteriesNaphthalene—an ingredient in mothballsMethanol—a main component in rocket fuelNicotine—used as an insecticideTar—material for paving roadsToluene—used to manufacture paint I asked my fianceFeb 16, 2020 at 9:58pmto quit and he did. I think he's glad - he feels healthier. LOAD MORE Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?