The hardest thing

When you finally meet someone that seems to completely “get” you, but then they turn out to be a selfish jerk! I wish I could just accept it and move on, but it’s so hard to ignore all the great stuff. For my whole life I’ve wished to find someone who sees the natural world like I do. I finally found him, but he also happened to be completely self-absorbed, lacked empathy, and truly believed he is “god’s gift” to women. (Yes he actually said that.) it’s so incredibly hard to turn my back on all of that just to save myself from being completely taken advantage of. Sometimes love really does suck!

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No no

Mar 24, 2020 at 11:10pm

I said women love me not I'm God gift to them. They may so think, but I do not ;-p

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@No no

Mar 25, 2020 at 2:00am

try harder.

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Sounds like

Mar 25, 2020 at 6:03am

Quite the idiot.
Hit him in the head with a whisky bottle and then leave.
You deserved to be loved always.
Or slip him a mickey bahaha
Kidding
Run to the hills, run for your life !

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People who say suck

Mar 25, 2020 at 6:13am

Like knights who say neat should be shot

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He's probably a narcissist...

Mar 25, 2020 at 12:08pm

Let him go. The pain you will feel will be nothing like what will happen if you stay and put up with it. I went ahead with a narcissist and lost myself in the process. Took YEARS to get myself back! My advice: RUN.

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No no

Mar 25, 2020 at 12:29pm

Try harder what speaking the truth, see I remember I was telling a lady. Encouraging words that she can make a bus that was about to leave. I commented afterward that women love me jokingly see if that were true I'd be where I'd give all I have to be. By that I mean whatever it takes, see cause I have nothing else.

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Worse

Mar 25, 2020 at 12:56pm

I met a very similar case except he complained about being “shy” when really he thought he was gods gift to all of humanity. Narcissists can fuck right off.

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Get you..

Mar 26, 2020 at 12:18am

From your description, I’d really invite you to monitor what “gets me” means. The trap with that sort of relationship is that usually it binds a person who has gone through life feeling “unseen”, with a person who exists in the world by “mirroring”. By mimicking human behavior, emotions, and processing everything you think is emotional and intuitive on a “cerebral”, computer processing efficiency. This virus season is a good reminder of how some bad relationships can eventually inhibit us, multiply within us, and make us ill.

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Narrisist I'm not

Mar 26, 2020 at 1:00pm

I love with real caring feelings and dying with real pain inside because I may of hurt and been hurt.

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Androidymous

Mar 26, 2020 at 8:59pm

What a loser he is..
It gets easier.
Over time your ability to weed those ones out on sight will be finely tuned.
Spare no effort on those tools, their egos demand the world from everyone yet they give nothing in return.

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