I Hate This
posted March 15th, 2020 at 10:11 AM
I'm so embarrassed to admit this but I am head over heels in love with my partner. We are married and this person loves me to death, and I feel the same. But part of me wonders how I could get by alone if something ever happened to them. By this I mean emotionally. We are both so connected and have almost become one. I mean this is over years and years and years of being together. Sometimes I wonder how I could survive without someone so wonderful. Ok, now I've written this all out. It sounds absurd!
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Mar 15, 2020 at 10:32pm
Get lots of cats.
Uh
Mar 15, 2020 at 10:33pm
This is literally the lamest post I’ve ever read. Also, codependent much?
Anonymous
Mar 16, 2020 at 8:22am
Dam
Truth ?
Wish I have this.
No one loves me
Bahaha
Cheer Up
Maybe Tomorrow
Always Tomorrow
re: "almost becoming one"
Mar 16, 2020 at 8:50am
Is that appealing? Sounds like drowning to me.
Meowmeow
Mar 16, 2020 at 9:35am
Glad I read something as amazing as this on a Monday morning! Best of luck to the both of you !
Must be tough
Mar 16, 2020 at 9:38am
Knowing that, after decades of living a joyful, love-filled, fulfilling life and sharing such a deep connection with another human being, if they die first, you may soon die of a broken heart.
In a way, I am in a similar situation. You see, I am absurdly rich. I can have whatever I want whenever I want it regardless of cost. But I worry about when I am very old and possibly ending up losing my untold billions. After such a long life of pandering to my every whim, how will I survive an average old age?
Life's hard, isn't it?
Being single
Mar 16, 2020 at 11:48am
gets easier as time passes -unless you set your mind to being unhappy if you aren't in a relationship.
I used to miss the "good" aspects, but now it's so great to have time foŕ my friends & family & hobbies.
There were so many things/events I missed out on because my ex didn't want to go and wanted me to just stay with him at his place & do the stuff he wanted.
It’s not absurd
Mar 16, 2020 at 6:32pm
It’s beautiful!
I felt the same way!
Mar 17, 2020 at 3:16am
And then he cheated on me. We were together for decades! And we'd look into each others eyes and cry at the love we felt for each other! I thought I was in my most perfect universe. But on a long enough timeline, everything eventually ends, either from someone's choice, or in death. I'm really happy for love though! I hope yours lasts as long as it can!
This was me
Mar 17, 2020 at 11:32pm
Then my husband got brain cancer and died. Your fears are justified. It is the worst feeling in the world and I would never wish this grief on anyone.
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