Such low effort men on the apps

I am a woman. I use hinge. If I make the effort to comment on something on your profile and you decide to match but then “invite ____ to start the conversation” don’t expect a response back. Put in some effort. I am going to start giving you guys 24hrs to say something then unmatch.

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I don't feel comfortable with the dating apps

Mar 28, 2020 at 11:27pm

So much scammers; or even real people but PTSDed beyond being capable of being a partner. And i don't mean to sound to paranoid, but what if they've already to the sci-fi stage of these high tech cyborgs? ....................... What happened to the tradition of the genuine skilled service minded Match-Maker service? I've seen there are still a few around. Just watch though for fakes like the preponderance of those fake psychics for hire..

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Dating Sites

Mar 28, 2020 at 11:55pm

And apps are loaded with fake profiles of women- to get guys to respond and upgrade, or to look at their Instagram.
Most likely reason is that many or most women are on there for attention and validation and will never reply to anyone.
Nor put in effort themselves.

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Use your words

Mar 29, 2020 at 1:23am

Humans suck at hints. Male humans, especially. So research tells us.
Say what you want, or sod off. True during normal times, which these are not.
Everyone is anxious because of the looming existential threat. Don't expect them to pick up on your subtle signaling.
Can't believe this still needs to be said. For a group that highly values communication (or so they say), modern singles overwhelmingly fail to communicate effectively.
Speak your mind. State your desires. Be brief and direct.
Do better.

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Hahahaa

Mar 29, 2020 at 8:15am

Yeah right! It's like a miracle if a woman messages someone first.

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Passive aggressive

Mar 29, 2020 at 9:07am

Real men aren't on apps honey.

We are at home pickling food, stocking up on months of goods and securing the home from the upcoming crime wave you might have missed hearing about.

Any man wasting his time on that shit right now is going to get his ass handed to him over the next four months with the current situation.

I can't wait to date after this is over.

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Umm

Mar 29, 2020 at 9:50am

I used to be thoughtful about my profile and my opening bids and the most common response was no response. If that strategy doesn’t work plan B is to spam lots of people with a low effort message that doesn’t hurt when it’s ignored. What women don’t get is that they are the choosers and if you actually take the step of initiating you can makes my day. But it never happens.

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Dating apps

Mar 29, 2020 at 9:56am

are for lazy ass people.

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@ I don’t

Mar 29, 2020 at 1:28pm

Spoken like a true cyborg.

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Commentary is not effort, either

Mar 29, 2020 at 2:07pm

Humans suck at hints. Male humans, especially. So research tells us.
Say what you want, or sod off. True during normal times, which these are not.
Everyone is anxious because of the looming existential threat. Don't expect them to pick up on your subtle signaling.
Can't believe this still needs to be said. For a group that highly values communication (or so they say), modern singles overwhelmingly fail to communicate effectively.
Speak your mind. State your desires. Be brief and direct.

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Anonymous

Mar 29, 2020 at 11:59pm

It must be nice to be able to just expect to be pursued.

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