Spinster

posted May 9th, 2020 at 8:10 PM

I'm so happy to be single right now. Not getting nagged to an early grave. Fuck, he was annoying. Even the friends I've seen (at a distance) are annoying as hell. I love lying in bed for as long as I please, getting up at noon to listen to jazz, eating pancakes with lots of maple syrup while sitting on the balcony as the sun shines all over my makeup free face. Nothing beats it.

10 Comments

Negative Nancy

May 10, 2020 at 1:51am

I like your post. Your post makes sense to me

Likewise

May 10, 2020 at 2:23am

Confidence is growing. Health. Happiness too.
It feels good.

Nothing worse

May 10, 2020 at 8:00am

I dated a guy like that too. He criticized and nagged and made constant “helpful suggestions” to the point that he literally drove me crazy. He was exhausting to be around. When he’d finally go back to his own place I would feel like doing a happy dance. It was like finally being able to breathe after having a weight lifted off my chest. I miss a lot of things about him but I sure don’t miss that!

I haven't worn makeup

May 10, 2020 at 5:46pm

Since the 3rd week of March and my skin has never looked better. Obviously, I totally agree with your post. I dumped the one who thought that my entire schedule should revolve around when he was available...and am so grateful that I don't have to deal with that noise now that all of this is going on!

Ah, there it is

May 10, 2020 at 10:16pm

The "I don't need a man I love being single other human beings are useless to me because I'm a self absorbed misanthrope" post that is a mainstay on Confessions.
Looks like Vancouver is getting back to normal.

Ah there is the guy

May 11, 2020 at 10:15am

who hates women who are open about being happy being single.
"They should keep it a secret because we don't want other females realízing it's possible to be fulfilled being anything other than a mate and mother! So I'll just spew the usual ignorant shit like that they are people-haters but hide it in big words like misanthrope".
Love my family, friends, animals, nice/intelligent people I meet in my travels (which are just groceries lately). Anyone who met me wouldn't call me a misanthrope, nor a misandrist.
My dad is a man (Remember Fathers' Day is in June, everyone!) and my best friend is a guy.

@Ah there it is

May 11, 2020 at 11:00am

Someone shit in your cornflakes this morning? Glad I don't have to hear you bitch about it. Hello single life!!

Seen similar posts

May 11, 2020 at 3:25pm

On here, but by guys. Almost all thumbs down.
Woman posts it and almost all thumbs up

Get it girl

May 12, 2020 at 7:03pm

Love this post. Oh, and to the one loser who can’t be happy for someone trying to make what could be a devastating loss into something beautiful, go f*ck yourself. You suck.