Getting even

posted June 20th, 2020 at 12:31 PM

He doesn't know I'm collecting every message. I'm looking at every email, digging, searching. I'm quietly plotting my revenge, letting him think he's winning me over but really collecting enough to get him in trouble. I never loved him, I just wanted to kill boredom but he went too far and led me on then hurt me somehow. I will enjoy the look on his face when he realizes I've been setting him up. He's going to wish he never met me when I'm finished with him. This is going to be so awesome. That's what he gets for pretending to show interest and then hurting me over things I can't help having and being. Pretending to care, saying he's sorry. Yeah, right. Nope, just sitting quietly, collecting evidence to trap him and ruin him. He will pay dearly. He has no idea, hahaha.

23 Comments

Anonymous

Jun 20, 2020 at 8:05pm

This is a horribly, terribly bitter individual. This reads like the confession of someone thinking they're getting revenge but all they're doing is advertising the reality that they're no longer in the dating market.

Concerned about you

Jun 20, 2020 at 8:21pm

He won’t be the one that’s paying in the end. The earlier you get him out of your life, the faster you will be healed. Just move on. Just remember what you learnt from this whole thing.
Do not let him turn you into a sick person like he is. Do not let any guy to have that power, and control over your emotions. You are strong.
Did you read what you wrote on here? It sounds like there’s lots of hatred and bitterness. Cut ties with him before you get sick.

Them who hold the fire of hate in their own belly

Jun 20, 2020 at 8:29pm

Always burn themselves first ... get a life ... its there for you ... all you have to do is let go and let love

Sicksicksick

Jun 20, 2020 at 9:04pm

This is either a completely bogus post or you’re a seriously troubled person. Anyone who’s lived long enough and dated enough eventually runs into someone who wasn’t genuine. However, from the sounds of it you’d have been perfect together.

Revenge is a fools game

Jun 20, 2020 at 9:14pm

You just invite further revenge on yourself. Hurt someone enough and they may put you in the ground. If you don't like the way someone is treating you then cut ties and move on like a normal person.

Honest ?

Jun 20, 2020 at 9:45pm

dick !

Just one?

Jun 21, 2020 at 12:09am

I have a list.

Leyla

Jun 21, 2020 at 2:08am

Your target may have a personality disorder. For your own sanity stop this dangerous plan of revenge. Its just not worth it! Move on, get a therapist and learn to love yourself.

North star

Jun 21, 2020 at 5:53am

OP, I strongly urge you to abort this mission.

It may seem now that acts of revenge take place in a closed circuit between you and this person, with you in the driver’s seat. But it may be that a) they are several steps ahead of you, and/or b) any actions that you take to discredit this person could result in negative consequences for the people around you.

The beauty of no contact is that it takes courage, strength and willpower that can be transformative. You will need to develop strategies and positive habits to keep focused on your path forward and cut through impulsive tendencies that can feel like progression but really keep us stuck in the mud.

Why not channel your fire into forward propulsion, rather than settling for purgatory? What is your vision for the life you want to live?