They were right

At various times in my life I’ve been criticized as being arrogant and judgemental, both critiques I forcefully rejected. After spending a lot of time reflecting on past situations, both work-related or personal, I’ve come to realize that those criticisms were accurate. I’m not going to lie to myself and say that I’m never going to be that way again, because I’m realistic enough to realize that it’s not that easy to change thought processes and habits ingrained over a long lifetime. I am however, going to try my very best in the future to be much more aware of what I’m thinking before I speak, and to question why I feel the way I do.

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Amen brother

Jun 1, 2020 at 3:46pm

I will be finding a away I can notice it much sooner. I will no longer go off in nearly out of control tangents for stupidly long periods of time, unless it's love again, so maybe I pray it's not. Anyways not too much longer (if because if nothing changes than nothing changes) I'll be making a big life changes actual either way I'll be doing that.

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Jun 1, 2020 at 3:50pm

speak louder than words. Instead of talking about it, DO something about it.

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The irony is...

Jun 1, 2020 at 7:23pm

... that calling anyone "judgmental" is itself judgmental, it's also arrogant. Usually it's authoritarians who do this, it's a sort of pre-emptive strike, if you disagree with them and say so they call you judgmental, but it's only a pretext to set themselves up as authorities.

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Forcefully ejected

Jun 2, 2020 at 2:26am

And ear-lie in the mornin' too!

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Yeah

Jun 2, 2020 at 9:00am

I've been reflecting on the more anti-social moments of my life where I was truly an asshole and it makes me cringe. Times I was really judgemental about others without looking in the mirror first. I'm working on being a nicer person.

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@ The irony is...

Jun 2, 2020 at 3:42pm

So you believe people should just let you wipe your feet on them and not say shit to you about it, otherwise you're going to call them a hypocrite for your lack of respectful behavior? STFU and have some goddamned humility. You'll be treated the way you deserve just like any other self absorbed twit out there . You're not anyone that special. Get over yourself.

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