Timberposted June 1st, 2020 at 1:28 PM They should call it timber, not tinder. Because it cuts my self esteem down every time. I wish I was better looking, then tinder would be fun. Show 15 Comments 15 Comments Post a Comment ActuallyJun 1, 2020 at 1:47pmThey should call it Hinder because it wrecks people’s lives and self esteem. Beauty is an opinionJun 1, 2020 at 2:59pmI have been told I am naturally beautiful. I wear very little makeup, long wavy hair, small features, fit-ish body etc. My experience - I may end up matching with more people because humans are so visual when choosing a mate but please don't think this results in any more dates or an instant relationship.I have been single for years and no, Troll commenters, it's not because of anything negative. Dating is like trying to find two compatible needles in a haystack. It's damn near impossible.And for the opposite gender...most of the handsome guys who I match with (that I think are out of my league) tend to have the biggest self esteem issues. They aren't doing much better.Healthy self esteem and a good outlook on life go a lot farther than looks alone. Focus on being the best version of yourself inside and out.Good luck! My point exactlyJun 1, 2020 at 3:49pmAfter all these bad Tinder dates, I finally got rid of that stupid app once and for all. Goodbye, good luck and good riddance. Peace of mind ever since. TinderJun 1, 2020 at 4:09pmis a phone game you play while on the toilet, not a way to meet people. At least in this city. Ive been other places where it actually works. But here its more of a time wasting app. Figures AnonymousJun 1, 2020 at 4:50pmAnother sausage party Don't hate me cus I'm beautifulJun 2, 2020 at 1:42amBut quite frankly I wish you were better looking too AnonymousJun 2, 2020 at 1:47amlife is always fun when you're a beautiful person. They're treated better by others and more likely to succeed in life. The species is pretty shallow. @BeautyJun 2, 2020 at 10:32amAt least you are a woman and get matches, likely many of them. Average and better looking guys get none- or few.Hence the handsome guys who have issues- they get turned down,ignored,and ghosted just because Tinder is used as validation and a form of attention for most women.There are a few Tube videos where women use their brother's/boyfriends pix,and go on Tinder and try interacting with women.They are stunned at how hard it is. Go look. Location location locationJun 2, 2020 at 1:01pmWent to Thailand, was getting 100 matches a day. Los Angeles- dozens. Europe- Barcelona, Berlin,Paris, Rome,etc...too many to count.Vancouver- 1 match in 3 months. It only worksJun 2, 2020 at 4:13pm... for photogenic people. Some people are much better looking in pictures than they are in real life. There’s also so many filters for picture apps now so that rarely are you actually seeing a photo anymore that hasn’t been altered by a filter. I can count on both hands the number of photos of me that are actually flattering, and yet in real life I’ve been told repeatedly that I’m very good looking. So I’d rather be attractive in person than in pictures, if I have to choose. LOAD MORE Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?