Bad person

When I think of people who I used to be friends with who gradually kind of dropped out of my life, my first thought is that it must be because I'm a bad person and no one likes me. Truth is, I'll never know the reason.

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Truth?

Jul 29, 2020 at 1:47am

People outgrow each other. Not yer fault

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Are we the same person

Jul 29, 2020 at 9:43am

I was considering writing something like this. I wonder all the time what it is that I’ve done to others, they seem to exist in this other world and I’m on the outside looking in. I’m simply looking for friends/connection and little by little every ‘friend’ turns into some sort of long lost memory.

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Sometimes...

Jul 29, 2020 at 12:16pm

relationships, including friendships, just run their course. Perhaps the circumstances that brought you together initially changed, or perhaps the other person has decided to make changes in their own life and your relationship just got swept away with the rest... Losing a relationship is not always a judgment of the other person's worth, i.e. a 'good' or a 'bad' person. Life just happens sometime!

That being said, if you notice a pattern of folks ghosting you after only a few weeks or months of friendship, it might be time for some self-reflection. Good luck!

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And there is times

Jul 29, 2020 at 2:09pm

When others drop friends when they get boyfriends so girlfriends are now no longer needed until the guy is gone. It’s a pattern I’m not hanging around and waiting for anymore

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They may only think you're bad...

Jul 29, 2020 at 5:48pm

If you told them never to come see you or speak to you again, and then write stuff like this as if you're seriously wondering why they don't go against what you expressed directly to them. Not in their power to apologize to themselves on your behalf. You have to go do that yourself, and stop being a bad person while you're at it.

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No one?

Jul 30, 2020 at 11:10am

No one likes you? As in everyone you encounter hates being around you for any extended period of time? If what you say is true and you're not just exaggerating to feel pity for yourself, then maybe your first instinct about the being bad to others warrants a little more attention on your part. Of course you might just smell bad, and should do your laundry more often.

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@there is

Jul 31, 2020 at 6:18am

Yep

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Joe Kerr

Jul 31, 2020 at 4:02pm

You identify as a victim. That’s YOUR problem.

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Luna Lake

Aug 2, 2020 at 11:08am

the fewer ppl like you, often that means you are what I call surfing the edge of the bell curve, or in other words, you are not close to the statistical median of what ppl are like. harder for you to find likeminded ppl. you might only ever have one or 2 friends. (like me)

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Truly funny how.

Aug 3, 2020 at 6:33pm

Someone seems to find posts to be written by a person they know. This person rents far too much space in their head. Letting go of this resentment would be a far greater place of advantage. I just hope and am pretty much 100% positive the other doesn't feel the same way. No way is he better possibly a little too a lot wiser, I guess depends upon who your asking the world or him.

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