How is this possible?

My ex and I had this bizarre connection from day one, where we could literally complete each other’s sentences and were frequently thinking exactly the same thing at the same time. I do believe in psychic phenomena because I’ve experienced it for my whole life, but this type of connection with someone else has never happened to me before. We’ve had a very tumultuous relationship for a long time, both of us being equally strong and stubbornly independent. Hence the ex part. But seriously, how is it that virtually every time that I’m in a very dark place and feeling so lost and alone and missing them SO much, I get a text from them? Wtaf? How can two people be so close and yet so far apart at the same time? It tears me apart because I’m never happy without them and yet when we’re together we clash so much! How can we fix this so that we can both agree to be together but still be ourselves? I suspect this will never happen, but my heart just won’t give it up and it doesn’t seem to matter how long we’re apart, there’s no other person that I can imagine being with.

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Acting the part

Jul 9, 2020 at 11:28pm

You need to understand and act your part right.

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Why the downvotes ??

Jul 9, 2020 at 11:52pm

I’d say it’s worth trying to work on
It’s extremely difficult to connect with people

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Ahem

Jul 10, 2020 at 6:18am

psychic phenomena or codependency?

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Quantum Physics

Jul 10, 2020 at 7:50am

After learning more about quantum physics I am beginning to believe this may be why people connect on an unconcious level and are able to 'miraculously' feel the other's emotions or thoughts and seem to respond or make contact 'out of the blue'. Happens to me all the time with people I am close to. Not ESP but something I've learned to accept. As for your relationship with your ex, it's possible to remain friends and not be romatically involved and that may be a better outcome in the long run. Good luck with figuring it out.

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@ Why the downvotes

Jul 10, 2020 at 7:53am

The psychic thing.

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Anonymous

Jul 10, 2020 at 9:37am

Are you quite young? Anyway, you probably need to work on communication. Read lots of books on relationship psychology: love languages, attachment style, look up stuff on how to communicate. Whether or not you get back together with this person, it'll help you in your friendships, family relationships, and with whoever you date in the future.

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Adopted

Jul 10, 2020 at 10:20am

Maybe you’re actually siblings. Twins

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I am so sick of the need to hide gender

Jul 10, 2020 at 10:26am

If your ex doesn't identify as either gender, fine, but if they do then just write "he" or "she" ffs.

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Heaven's Gate

Jul 10, 2020 at 3:46pm

Hinged on a simple twist of fate

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Op

Jul 10, 2020 at 4:50pm

I don’t care whether anyone believes in psychic phenomena or not. Your beliefs don’t negate my personal experiences. And no, I’m not young. What I’m saying is that it’s bizarre how this connection between us happens and has been happening since the day we met. It’s a very powerful thing to dismiss; having someone who is like a part of you. There are reasons I won’t go into about why we’re apart, because they don’t matter. I’m just continually blown away by how this happens at times when I’m so low, and suddenly there they are. Believe or don’t, I don’t care.

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