Time to Change!

Next year there has to be a new rule. Women have to start to ask guys out if they want a date. Women are the ones who make the choice anyway on who they date and have a relationship with. So why do men have to ask? It makes no sense what so ever. Women ask guys out. I have asked out over 500 women a lot said No. Some have said yes (Vegas odds) and actually 6 women asked me out! I said yes to all 6. But why as a guy should I go through all the trouble of constant rejection? It gets tiring. It's time for a change. Women ask guys out!

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Jul 15, 2020 at 10:47pm

At its current rate of degeneration, the human Y chromosome will disappear in about 4.6 million years. As it has in a number of other species already. Don't worry, they still reproduce, but with declining genetic diversity...
So, yeah, that last generation may possibly see the change you speak of.
Until then, the Pacific Northwest female of the species will continue to BBD (Bigger, Better Deal), also known as the "never settle". The economics of that are durable and unassailable - look into it.
Additional to the BBD we have the "self-daters", the never-ready, the aromantics, the traditionalists, the perfectionists, the entitled and the eternally traumatized. Oh, and the risk-averse majority, naturally. Because everyone is safety-obsessed, and cowardice is the norm here. For all genders.
Don't hold your breath.
Unless you're trying to avoid the Plague, of course, and then, do.

Don't be so fucking lazy

Jul 15, 2020 at 10:52pm

It really isn't hard to learn the signs that someone (in your case, women) finds you attractive. You make a point of learning and then paying attention to that and then you can basically safely approach because they've already shown you they're interested.

@Not Yet

Jul 16, 2020 at 2:07am

Read today, COVID-19 may affect male fertility. Nature seems hell-bent on wiping us out. Let's face facts, we deserve to be wiped out.

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Keep swiping

Jul 16, 2020 at 6:15am

On the app's where I have to message them, I always freeze up because they never answer anything I write.

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So it took you a little while

Jul 16, 2020 at 7:53am

To realize your true value and that you don't owe anything to women?!

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Nah

Jul 16, 2020 at 9:22am

I'm a woman, I asked guys out multiple times and have often been rejected. Why do guys believe this myth that women have no problem getting dates? It ain't true. Also @Not Yet, I've been hearing that ridiculous theory that the human Y chromosome is going to disappear for years now. It's not going to happen, it isn't happening to other species like you said. The human race is not that genetically diverse to begin with and somehow we haven't had a problem reproducing (7.5 billion people on planet earth and counting, basically that's rat levels of reproduction). If the human race somehow manages to not go extinct in the next few million years it will be just fine.

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Jul 16, 2020 at 10:38am

Of those 500 women you asked out, how many of them did you actually speak with/read through their profiles to see if you had anything in common with? Other than you thinking they're hot? Getting to know someone and then asking them out will boost your success rate.

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I'm a woman

Jul 16, 2020 at 10:40am

and I've asked guys out a couple of times but it hasn't ended well. I asked one guy to the movies, he said yes and I thought that meant I was in with a chance. He dragged me to the front row, where his younger brother was sitting, like a chaperone! After the movie, he told me he already had a girlfriend. Why didn't he just say no? This kind of thing is why women don't ask men out - because they don't know what to do when it happens....

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We do ask guys out

Jul 16, 2020 at 11:04am

Just not you. Quit fucking acting like a child. Your post reads like “whinewhinewhine cry cry woe is me women are the enemy”

Anonymous

Jul 16, 2020 at 11:27am

You said it lazy lol
I concer..
Come on
U asked out 500 girls
Really was it 500 ? lol
You seem whiny.
Maybe your just picking the wrong gals.
Show a little backbone
GD
We do everything else for you.
Now you want to be picked too.
Good luck with that :)

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