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I confess that I’m extremely sexually frustrated. Recently got back with someone with whom I have had a long and tumultuous on/off relationship. Unfortunately the sex is now almost non-existent. It’s one of the reasons we broke up the last time too. I care about him but if I’m not going to get laid then we might just as well be friends only. That means no more sleepovers at my place and no more freeloading on my data, groceries, and most importantly, my time. I’ve still got life and lust in this body and I’m going to go find a guy who actually appreciates it while I still can. He’s welcome to go find someone else too. This experiment can be considered a failure.

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Anal-ized dis

Sep 13, 2020 at 2:49am

I like data. I usta go for some of the other thing too but I'm really gonna missa data

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Have no sex talk, have no sex.

Sep 13, 2020 at 12:50pm

That's to say have you to talked about the sex problem your currently experiencing. Is also possible that the two of you have an awareness of the other's say one or both having history of abuse. Just saying do not cut him off until you talk to him

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Anonymous

Sep 13, 2020 at 7:35pm

If you are happy with the companion aspects of the relationship maybe you should discuss allowing other sex partners? If the relationship is good with the exception of the sex (or lack thereof), maybe don’t be so quick to toss it all out. If everything was great except he wouldn’t see movies with you, my guess is you would just go see movies with others, no?

My guess is if he is not into the sex aspect of the relationship he would probably feel a sense of relief that you would no longer be pressuring him on it and be happy to support you sleeping with others.

Op

Sep 13, 2020 at 8:32pm

Ps - it’s not just the lack of sex.

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@anonymous

Sep 13, 2020 at 10:34pm

Why would I want to continue a relationship with someone who I can’t have sex with? Like I said, we might as well just remain friends if that’s the case. It’s not like we’re married or even living together. What exactly do I get out of this when he’s at my place, eating my food, using my data, making a huge mess, and I’m not even getting laid? Nope. The companionship is fine as far as that goes, but it’s definitely not so good that I’m willing to tolerate being used for all the rest. The experiment is a failure, period.

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Harley8

Sep 16, 2020 at 8:29am

I agree with you, I feel your pain. I am married, little sex, not none but there never an anitiate from her, I always have to anitiate, sometimes to be told no. Have been in it for 20 years, why so long, for the kids mainly. Just move on is my recommendation.

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