I like data. I usta go for some of the other thing too but I'm really gonna missa data

That's to say have you to talked about the sex problem your currently experiencing. Is also possible that the two of you have an awareness of the other's say one or both having history of abuse. Just saying do not cut him off until you talk to him

If you are happy with the companion aspects of the relationship maybe you should discuss allowing other sex partners? If the relationship is good with the exception of the sex (or lack thereof), maybe don’t be so quick to toss it all out. If everything was great except he wouldn’t see movies with you, my guess is you would just go see movies with others, no?

My guess is if he is not into the sex aspect of the relationship he would probably feel a sense of relief that you would no longer be pressuring him on it and be happy to support you sleeping with others.

Ps - it’s not just the lack of sex.

Why would I want to continue a relationship with someone who I can’t have sex with? Like I said, we might as well just remain friends if that’s the case. It’s not like we’re married or even living together. What exactly do I get out of this when he’s at my place, eating my food, using my data, making a huge mess, and I’m not even getting laid? Nope. The companionship is fine as far as that goes, but it’s definitely not so good that I’m willing to tolerate being used for all the rest. The experiment is a failure, period.

I agree with you, I feel your pain. I am married, little sex, not none but there never an anitiate from her, I always have to anitiate, sometimes to be told no. Have been in it for 20 years, why so long, for the kids mainly. Just move on is my recommendation.