I would like the love

of my life to look after me to pamper me and read my mind kindly

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Woman or man?

Sep 16, 2020 at 11:06pm

I mean you, not the love of your life?

Also the part about reading your mind *kindly* was interesting. Have you had it read unkindly?

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Anonymous

Sep 16, 2020 at 11:22pm

careful with those genies.
might end up in a wheelchair
wearin' pampers.

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Be the change

Sep 17, 2020 at 12:16am

I don’t know your circumstances, so perhaps you’re in a committed relationship with this person already, and you’re not getting your needs met the way you want. (The whole reading your mind part is completely unrealistic however.)

If you’re not in a committed relationship though, before you start asking to be pampered that way, you need to be sure that you’re offering your partner what they need as well.

Open and honest communication is the key to a good relationship. That means both parties need to feel comfortable expressing their feelings, their desires, and their concerns, without fear of being judged or abandoned.

Speaking from my own experience, any relationship where this type of openness isn’t present is not going to succeed. People can’t be expected to guess what you want, and they can’t be expected to give you what you want without having their own needs met as well.

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You want a

Sep 17, 2020 at 7:20am

Rich, psychic?

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Self deprecating

Sep 17, 2020 at 9:16am

But then you'll wind up hating yourself! Self-actualization means taking care of one's own needs. It's our mission on this planet. If someone else does it all for you, you'll eventually resent them and they you. It's human nature. Heal yourself instead.

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Lil miss princess all about me

Sep 17, 2020 at 1:03pm

Go be the love of your own life. You sound like a parasite.

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Anonymous

Sep 17, 2020 at 1:36pm

Whats in your mind that needs some kindness.
Is it to Overlook something you've done.
Just come clean.
Games are for damn kids.
Your not a child are you ?
You know !
Innocence "like a child" is so rare.
Those people get stepped on.
Unfortunately
Shameful
They have so much to give.
To the right person
Someone deserving.
Are you deserving ?

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OMG hahaha

Sep 17, 2020 at 2:29pm

I once thought the same after giving as much in kind and realized the so-called paramour....that I thought the world of... only thought of himself, his own needs alone and never cared about my feelings or my well-being at all. His mind actually radiated contempt, wishing me ill and rejoicing in my pain every time I failed to give him the absolute and one-sided adoration he took for granted and then expected, or radiated this resentment whenever he was requested equality or even attention. He ended up losing that love and devotion and now stews with regret, recognizing he handled it badly and now has no happiness.
So, OP, you should rethink your wishes. They sound pretty self and one-sided. Nobody wants to be paired with that as a foundation for a relationship.

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Well preserved

Sep 17, 2020 at 3:21pm

Half and half baby.

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@ OMG hahaha

Sep 17, 2020 at 6:11pm

You may have thought the same but you never gave anything especially not the time of day. You just didn't want them giving the time of day to anyone else.

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