Body is still warm
posted October 8th, 2020 at 1:03 AM
I had to check the calendar to see when we broke up. It hasn't even been a year and my ex said they're marrying someone from the States they met online. Not sure how that works.
posted October 8th, 2020 at 1:03 AM
Dan offers some advice on where she might find it.
14 Comments
Post a CommentGood for her/him
Oct 8, 2020 at 8:47am
Maybe take a page out of the same book and find somebody for yourself (though maybe closer to home).
Anonymous
Oct 8, 2020 at 10:01am
Rebound - Rebound - rebound it's called.
It probably won’t
Oct 8, 2020 at 10:03am
Work, that is. Your ex jumped into something new on the rebound. The chances for that relationship being successful in the long term aren’t very good. Especially the online plus distance thing. However, that’s no longer your problem. What is your problem is figuring out how to move on with your own life and put them firmly in the past. I know it hurts a lot, but really you have no other option unless you want to continue to suffer. Hugs for you.
OP
Oct 8, 2020 at 10:42am
As far as I know, they've only spent 7 - 10 days total together on a few weekends. I'm mostly just concerned they are making a big mistake and am not sure how their teenager fits into this. Guess I'll never know because they blocked me.
They?
Oct 8, 2020 at 10:52am
Your ex has multiple personalities?
@they
Oct 8, 2020 at 11:44am
Maybe the Op doesn’t want to reveal their ex’s gender or maybe “they” are the ex and the teenager.
@they?
Oct 8, 2020 at 12:19pm
The word “they” is not necessarily only used when referring to more than one person. “They” can also be used in relation to one person, such as in the case of the next sentence. Most likely the OP did not want to use gender specific pronouns, therefore, THEY used the word “they” instead.
U
Oct 8, 2020 at 1:07pm
have narrowly escaped a relationship from hell. Count your lucky stars.
@ rebound
Oct 8, 2020 at 2:22pm
So how long til you consider a person is past this" rebound mark"
You sound so "knowledgeable ".
I think each relationship is quite different, depends on the person.
Tell us magic guru.
Enlighten us.
Anonymous
Oct 8, 2020 at 4:04pm
Interesting not so fun fact: While women experience more pain after a breakup, we recover more fully than men ever do, reports new research from Binghamton University in New York and University College London.
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