Emotionally unavailable

I feel sorry for people who went through shit that makes them so closed off. My heart hurts for them. Hopefully they find an equal someday. How sad.

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If you truly care

Oct 10, 2020 at 4:43am

Let people function in a self-determined way that works best for them and allows them to work through their own stuff in their own time while you do the same for yourself.

Also, check in and ask yourself whether feeling pity for another person is a form of distraction from some necessary inner work you need to do in order to form healthier emotional connections from this point forward.

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High

Oct 10, 2020 at 6:14am

Yes equality is a good thing.

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Zooropa album

Oct 10, 2020 at 6:16am

I really like that album by U2. It feels so fun and weird. Not the dark angst of Pop, a crap album. To be fair I sold my copy.

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Usually it's because we're too sensitive

Oct 10, 2020 at 8:17am

and can't bounce back.
For others of us, it's because we had a chance with someone amazing, and it wrecked us for regular people.
And for some of us, we tried singledom and just got comfortable with it. We stopped feeling lonely and started really enjoying our lives. And we don't need your pity thanks. Actually we feel sorry for people who feel that they have to be in a relationship to be fulfilled and are so terrified of being single they stay in unhappy/incompatible relationships.

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Not necessarily sad

Oct 10, 2020 at 8:47am

Some of us post trauma/bad relationships etc., feel better being on our own a lot, don't want to start up new relationships and all, no need. Closing the gates on potential invasions is desirable. Long term, proven, trusted friends only are OK. Pets are good too.

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Anonymous

Oct 10, 2020 at 10:56am

All it takes is just one depraved evil little narcissist to take someone emotionally hostage, doesn't it?

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"They who blame others

Oct 10, 2020 at 12:56pm

have a long way to go on their journey. They who blame themselves are half-way there. They who blame no one have arrived." - anon Ancient Chinese Proverb

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Anonymous

Oct 10, 2020 at 2:59pm

You know some people in this city are just self-absorbed and selfish, not necessarily broken, right? They just don't want to give anything back. It's a city of oversized children.

I know someone a lot like this.

Oct 10, 2020 at 3:02pm

I just wanted to love her because I believe from the very bottom of, to the very top of my heart, she is worth it.

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At some point...

Oct 10, 2020 at 4:36pm

It becomes too traumatic...

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