Okayposted October 25th, 2020 at 12:09 PM After 30 years of marriage, I just want to live by myself. I’m done, I need my freedom. Show 10 Comments 10 Comments Post a Comment The grassOct 25, 2020 at 3:08pmIsn’t always greener AnonymousOct 25, 2020 at 4:31pmIt took me 5 years to figure that out. Glad it wasn't 30. Just step out the back , Jack /JacquelineOct 25, 2020 at 7:50pm...and get yourself free. AnonymousOct 25, 2020 at 11:11pmWho caresDid you leave yet ?Coulda shoulda didnt Right ?I didByeeeeSucker WidowOct 25, 2020 at 11:22pmWell, you should probably get a divorce then. My husband died after only 9 years together (3 married), so you sound pretty ungrateful to me. Your marriage probably sucks so you should get a divorce if you honestly feel that way. Have fun all alone in a pandemic. Your couple friends will abandon you and your life as you know it will evaporate. Do itOct 26, 2020 at 3:26amYou know what to do blu jonnyOct 26, 2020 at 4:40pmPaid your dues of normalcy have you? what is itOct 26, 2020 at 6:54pmthat you are really looking for? @widowOct 26, 2020 at 11:42pmJust because your husband died doesn’t give you the right to crap on anyone else! The Op has every right to express their feelings and they’ve clearly given their relationship a long time. You have no idea why they feel like giving up. You have no way of knowing how your own relationship may have turned out had you had the opportunity to continue it. I’m sorry for your loss, but your bitterness is not called for. AnonymousOct 27, 2020 at 7:02amI never want to live with a lover again and if I do I want my own bathroom. LOAD MORE Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?