Eating out

I'm not so happily married, I will go into the missed connections, dating sites, when I don't feel seen in my marriage. I use it like an ego boost when I feel low. If I'm really dying for supply, I will write cheesy ambiguous song lyric post so my partner won't know it's me, and talk to women for a boost. I strung along and abused one in particular, it's part of my condition...Anyways, just my luck who walks into the same restaurant me and my spouse were waiting, aaarggghhh. I hunkered down into my booth so she couldn't see me. I think I got away with it. My hamburger tasted good and I didn't want anything to spoil that.


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Close call, not the last call

Nov 17, 2020 at 12:46pm

The good news is that you have the self-awareness to know exactly what this is (your words: strung along, abuse, supply, ego boost).

The bad news is that you’re still thinking in terms of getting away with it. I think you’re smart enough to know that these patterns are eventually going to bite you on the ass like a raging pit bull.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself (and everybody around you).

Oh what tangled webs we weave

Nov 17, 2020 at 1:31pm

In our efforts to deceive. But also, when spiders do their thing that is their natural repertoire and it works for them. Us evolutionary monkeys were not built to spin webs and we always get ourselves tangled too. Oh well; those who learn better will survive and uplift the DNA of the future humans-in-training.

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Nov 17, 2020 at 1:48pm

You're obviously a very flawed person -- hamburgers are gross.

As for the non monogamous lust that indicates that you are a functioning mammal, hahah! You really must like getting downvoted by people who detest reality


Nov 17, 2020 at 2:12pm

You sound like a real piece of work.

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Nov 17, 2020 at 2:28pm

That's a confession!

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Idiot Joe

Nov 17, 2020 at 3:28pm

Best to keep ego under control. My dream woman wasn't receptive to me at a house-party so I flirted with another woman, made plans to meet up, stood her up. A month or two later I'm sitting with the dream woman in some bar and the other woman comes over to ask why I never contacted her. Super embarrassing to have to face my bullshit and completely deserved. Never won over the dream woman either.

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Vancouver woman

Nov 17, 2020 at 4:03pm

I like you.

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Doubt this

Nov 17, 2020 at 6:06pm

I don't think the OP did this, I think the OP is describing someone who did this to them, and I can't believe this posting got past the monitors.

Where to start...

Nov 17, 2020 at 8:22pm

I have no idea, so I’ll just jump right in. It’s clear the Op (or perhaps the person the Op is pretending to be) is someone who has no integrity. People with integrity don’t behave like this at all. Messing with other people’s emotions is pure evil. In fact, anyone who does this knowingly, is someone that I’d consider to be a complete scumbag.

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@Doubt this

Nov 17, 2020 at 9:21pm

No, I think it's honest because it's full of denial. OP talked about "talk[ing] to women" not meeting them but it's obvious that is what happened when the OP recognized her in the restaurant. Anyone who had this happen to them would have called a spade a spade and used the word "cheating".

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