Married for 37 years

... and 5 years ago he had an affair. I struggle to feel safe anymore. Any of you who are contemplating an affair, I want you to know the outcome for the mother of your children and the grandmother of your grandchildren.


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Nov 14, 2020 at 9:53pm

So make sure she does not find out. No "admitting" it to her to ease your guilty conscience. Just enjoy your time together.

That sucks.

Nov 15, 2020 at 2:17am

My ex boyfriend’s Dad cheated for years and actually put women up in apartments all over Vancouver. His Mom found out when she found information about all the suites he was renting. She stayed with him and I think it was the wrong choice. My ex was totally traumatized by his fathers behavior and grew to resent his mother for not standing up to him. I think it’s why our relationship didn’t work out - he was so confused about how to be in a healthy relationship and so cynical about women.

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Your only choice is..

Nov 15, 2020 at 7:24am

To get over it. Move on from him or accept it. How shitty eh?

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The Opposite

Nov 15, 2020 at 10:42am

Is also true,women cheat at about the same rates as men do.

A man with no opportunity to cheat

Nov 15, 2020 at 10:18pm

Is an honest man.

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Nov 16, 2020 at 7:33pm

Because only men have affairs

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Being with anyone

Nov 17, 2020 at 1:19am

For 30 plus years is going to lead to boredom whether you are a man or a woman......Biology is what it is....Stay or go the choice is yours.

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Nov 17, 2020 at 2:04am

Is it really such a big deal? I mean if you've been married 37 years, then your kids are all grown up and moved out right??

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Nov 17, 2020 at 2:01pm

Ok, so 32 years after getting married, he has the energy for an affair? Why the fuck would he do that to himself. have a live one!

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Nov 17, 2020 at 3:32pm

do people bother with marriage??

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