December 27th

That’s the freedom day. Right now I’m just gritting my teeth. I have promised to deliver a Christmas dinner to HIS relatives. Not mine. HIS. He’s doing absolutely nothing to contribute. We don’t even live together. He’s been sitting on his ass every single time that he comes to my place, other than occasionally cooking a meal. He thinks he has equal rights in MY place, in spite of the fact that he doesn’t pay a dime towards rent or other expenses. On top of all that he’s been incredibly rude, obnoxious, controlling, and mean, for the past couple of weeks. So I will deliver the dinner for Boxing Day, and he will not be accompanying me back to my place afterwards. Although this will hurt like hell, his behaviour and attitude for the past few weeks has definitely illustrated that I have no other healthy options to make.

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December 28th

Dec 23, 2020 at 10:32pm

Dump his lazy ass.

22 7Rating: +15

Anonymous

Dec 23, 2020 at 10:35pm

Stop being a door mat.
Let shit for brains make his own shitty dinner.
Fuck him
Not literally though lol
Merry Shitmas

25 5Rating: +20

Just....

Dec 23, 2020 at 10:57pm

Dump him. Sounds like my ex and I get SO. EFFING. MAD when I think about how I felt this way for 2+ years and got nothing not even affection from that loser and STILL. STAYED. duuummmpp hiiiimm. Unless you just like complaining about things you can control.

28 5Rating: +23

You can only get taken advantage of by allowing people to

Dec 24, 2020 at 6:35am

Don’t be a chump. You’re already full of legitimate anger and resentment toward him. Don’t make the dinner. You’ve already left the relationship in your mind. You owe him nothing. Take care of yourself, first and always. Not ex-boyfriends dinner plans.

11 3Rating: +8

Sounds Like You Know What You Gotta Do

Dec 24, 2020 at 9:39am

Just do it! Rip the bandaid and don’t pick at it. Short term pain - it will pass. He sounds like a real douche. Merry Christmas and better luck and happiness in the New Year!

13 2Rating: +11

Cat

Dec 24, 2020 at 9:59am

You can't let someone shit all over you without your permission.Perhaps instead of ranting about his faults,you should take a look at why you even chose to be with this kind of person.Be strong and love yourself enough not to waste life's short time with losers.

13 1Rating: +12

Geez

Dec 24, 2020 at 3:09pm

DTMFA!

2 2Rating: 0

I just dumped

Dec 24, 2020 at 4:53pm

My loser “boyfriend” who literally can’t deal with life. Fuck these self entitled douche bags. Thank fuck I don’t have to deal with him for New Years.

5 1Rating: +4

@Anonymous

Dec 24, 2020 at 7:38pm

I made a promise. I don’t want to let them down. It’s not just about him.

4 1Rating: +3

Grabbing my lawn chair and some popcorn

Dec 25, 2020 at 9:34pm

There's any number of ways to do it but here's two: 1. Don't prepare any meal and dump him right when you are supposed to be leaving to go deliver it. 2. Go to the meal and excuse yourself at the end to go to the bathroom. Instead, walk out and dump him via text just before you drive away. Or you could text his mom and make her tell him. Man, I'm getting really into this.

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