Never Seen

I confess to refreshing the I Saw You page and Craigslist missed connections page daily in the hopes that maybe someone out there saw me as someone worth knowing. I’m working on not basing my self-worth so much off other people’s opinions but after feeling so undesirable and meaningless in past relationships I can’t help but wonder what it’s like for someone to really see me. I get it that you need to have self love but it feels obligatory. I want someone to love me not because they have to but because they want to.

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Wil

Dec 20, 2020 at 2:59pm

Maybe it would be a good idea to start loving others instead of being all concerned about whether or not others love you.
Love is an action verb. Do something kind for someone, just for the fun of it!

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Money...

Dec 20, 2020 at 5:06pm

can buy love at an hourly rate.

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I love

Dec 20, 2020 at 7:39pm

you

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jamie76

Dec 20, 2020 at 8:45pm

Stop playing the victim role. I can't imagine anything more shallow than thinking an "I Saw You" post means that person loves you - ridiculous. When you stop feeling sorry for yourself, seek out some online professional help with the emphasis on self-esteem. You have lovable qualities, you just haven't tapped into them or learned how to express them yet. You'll get there - anything worth having is worth putting an effort into!

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Spacial Tedium

Dec 20, 2020 at 9:49pm

Looking for love in all the wrong places

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U

Dec 24, 2020 at 11:45am

the guy looking for "weaving"?

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