I thought we were friends

And so when I visited Van a couple of years ago and he was hospitalized I visited him several times thinking my visit might do him some good. He was a partner of my deceased friend and is now married. I have not heard from him since. Altho I now realize he or his now husband no longer truly wanted to associate with me I still care for him and think about him a lot.

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Let it go

Jan 4, 2021 at 11:40pm

If he's not interested, he's not interested. Stop torturing yourself and find someone who does like you.

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cat

Jan 5, 2021 at 10:52am

Why waste your life thinking about someone who doesn't care about you.Get some counselling and start living life.

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Move on

Jan 6, 2021 at 1:12am

You probably remind him of a tough time in his life. Don't take it personally. We often associate people with a time in our lives and if that time was challenging and we want to put that time behind us, we often lose the friends that are associated with that time. Its just a defense mechanism.

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