I thought we were friends
posted January 4th, 2021 at 5:55 PM
And so when I visited Van a couple of years ago and he was hospitalized I visited him several times thinking my visit might do him some good. He was a partner of my deceased friend and is now married. I have not heard from him since. Altho I now realize he or his now husband no longer truly wanted to associate with me I still care for him and think about him a lot.
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Jan 4, 2021 at 11:40pm
If he's not interested, he's not interested. Stop torturing yourself and find someone who does like you.
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Jan 5, 2021 at 10:52am
Why waste your life thinking about someone who doesn't care about you.Get some counselling and start living life.
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Jan 6, 2021 at 1:12am
You probably remind him of a tough time in his life. Don't take it personally. We often associate people with a time in our lives and if that time was challenging and we want to put that time behind us, we often lose the friends that are associated with that time. Its just a defense mechanism.
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