Tangled Knots

I tied the knot with someone a few years ago, but the one I really want tied the knot with someone else.

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Anonymous

Feb 22, 2021 at 9:31pm

Fake post? Are there people so pathetic that they'll marry someone they're really not that into because they're afraid to be alone? People like this have made their beds because they've bought into such a bland conventional life imposed on them by others. A fate worse than death.

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Are you in knots

Feb 22, 2021 at 10:51pm

I dont get why people" tie the knot" .
No one ever seems satisfied nor happy with their choice.
Whats the damn point? A waste of time and money.
Cause you sound so fucking happy.
Whoo hoo
Good luck to you.
Single is the way to go.
Hell Ya

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Divorced

Feb 22, 2021 at 11:08pm

from reality
on a slender thread
betwixt
vibrant invisibility
and a life well read

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I get it

Feb 23, 2021 at 10:20am

Classic scenario actually (see "The Heartbreak Kid"). All kinds of cliches pop into mind, such as "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence." But a useful counter-cliche is "love the one you're with."

Marriages are not made in the stars, my friend. They are made here on earth. And like everything else on earth, they are flawed. But they respond to the amount of work we put into them.

And for context, envision the life of that divorced person, looking back on how they had a great situation that they took for granted.

What will you miss?

If the answer is "nothing" then you have a situation.

But if there are things you would regret, feel deeply hurt not to have or to be able to give, then fight for it. Fight for your relationship, as it is and as you might want it to be. You can't have everything but you can usually get most of it if you can talk and be honest.

Good luck

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My lover

Feb 23, 2021 at 11:38am

And I were both married, he married right when he meet me and I was married long before I knew him.
It’s was a hot and fast affair. Now all ties broken for good reason and we go on with ours lives without each other.

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L. Hand

Feb 23, 2021 at 12:17pm

Marry your Pornhub account?

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Suffe ring

Feb 23, 2021 at 12:21pm

Some see it as a life sentence. But there are some great tax benefits...? I’m not married. But I’ve heard about it. I think I would still want to pay a singles tax. That or have my hearing slowly diminish.

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My husband

Feb 23, 2021 at 12:43pm

told me he only got married to have regular sex. This was as we were divorcing after about 15 yrs. He never really wanted to do anything else together. Now we are seniors. Times were different back then and I have a feeling we weren't the only ones.

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Anonymous

Feb 24, 2021 at 1:22pm

Weddings should be illegal. Not only are they a huge waste of time and money, they are extremely tedious for everyone involved except the bride.
Marriage should simply be signing a certificate to obtain certain rights. That way, many brain-dead drama addicts wouldn't bother to get married if they won't get a big party with lots of gifts and a fake audience.

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@Anonymous

Feb 24, 2021 at 4:38pm

Definitely agree. Unfortunately there are so many people who lack integrity and will use someone just to avoid being alone.

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