Future Me

I am 25 years old and terrified of dying alone with no children of my own. I want to be a mother and a good wife but this virus is making meeting someone impossible. I just want to be a great mother and wife.

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Future Future Me

Mar 6, 2021 at 3:51pm

I am 35 years old and had a child. Now I'm separated from my husband, living in abject poverty and am shaped like Kermit the frog.

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Fred Funkstone

Mar 6, 2021 at 4:27pm

Okay.

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Aim higher

Mar 6, 2021 at 4:46pm

That’s all.

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Anonymous

Mar 6, 2021 at 4:59pm

I completely sympathize with you, and am in the same boat, though quite a few years older than you. Hang in there, our time will come :) In the meantime, take care of yourself and try to find the joy in everyday, not matter how difficult things are! Sending you lots of love and good vibes!

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25?!

Mar 6, 2021 at 5:05pm

This can’t be real. You have tons of time to find someone (just as long as you don’t lead with “I want to be the mother of your children”)

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Anonymous

Mar 6, 2021 at 6:17pm

Trying to find someone just to procreate with is a huge red flag.

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Anonymous

Mar 6, 2021 at 6:29pm

25 years old, give me a break...

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U r only

Mar 6, 2021 at 6:36pm

25!! Take a pill and relax. More than anything you will scare off any man with your level of desperation.

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@OP

Mar 6, 2021 at 6:48pm

Get the umbrella out, there's a shit storm coming....

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Giiiiirl.

Mar 6, 2021 at 6:52pm

Who are you without this life goal?? Even if you get to be a mother and wife, there's no guarantee that you won't die alone. Your kids might not like you, you might get divorced or your spouse will pass away before you. What are you really scared of? Not finding yourself? I don't think you can be a good wife or mother, truly, unless you have something to bring to the table. Please, please aspire to be a person who can find happiness within themselves to share with someone else so you don't end up enslaved and unhappy with no idea who that is.

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