Drunken confessions

My boyfriend has the unfortunate habit of only being able to tell me that he loves me when he’s drunk. The other unfortunate habit is that when he’s drunk he also says things like this: “I love you baby, in spite of who you are.” Or, “I love you even though you make terrible decisions and you’re so messed up.” If it wasn’t so pathetic I’d be laughing. I probably will after I dump his narcissistic ass.

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I would have thought arse

Apr 16, 2021 at 11:43pm

is apropos darling. Arse

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Anonymous

Apr 16, 2021 at 11:53pm

Alcohol is a truth serum of sorts.

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it could be...

Apr 17, 2021 at 4:46am

... that you do make horrible decisions. A narcissist is not someone who says things you disagree with.

If you want to dump a guy, just do it, you don't need a reason. Trying to make it his fault is immature. It's just that it take skills to keep a relationship going.

As for alcohol being a truth serum, no. It is a neurotoxic carcinogen. That's just what the evidence shows. I don't drink alcohol. As my friends have grown up, even if they have just a 'few drinks a week,' they have all, once they started doing this, adopted the same alcohol-washed out view of life.

It's sad to see...judaism and islam both have strong prohibitions on alcohol, e.g. in Proverbs it says wine is not for kings, for they will drink it and forget the law and pervert judgment.

Islam has a much stronger prohibition on alcohol, perhaps an evolutionary response to seeing the deleterious effects of spirits.

So, you know, I agree this woman should probably find someone she is more compatible with, a Queen needs a King who doesn't drink! Then they can enjoy wholesome activities, like taking LSD and staring up at the sky.

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Pippa

Apr 17, 2021 at 9:02am

If your boyfriend has to be drunk to tell you he loves you,you need to get out of that relationship .And what is it about you that wanted to be with someone like that?? He uses being drunk to excuse berating you.Don't you believe you deserve better???? DTMFA

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Question

Apr 17, 2021 at 10:15am

But, do you make terrible decisions and are you so messed up?

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That you

Apr 17, 2021 at 1:38pm

Have not dumped that sack of hammers is a poor reflection on you.....Sounds like his drunken ramblings are bang on.

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@Question

Apr 17, 2021 at 3:00pm

If she picked a drunkard, obviously she makes poor decisions. Two peas in a pod.

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Well At Least

Apr 17, 2021 at 6:43pm

Be thankful you didn't have a girlfriend who got drunk and confessed how many times she had been cheating on me. And next day- having forgot her drunken confession- all confused why I was packing her stuff up to move out.

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Anonymous

Apr 17, 2021 at 8:14pm

That's not love. Most narcissists have addiction problems they use to self-medicate but is still not an excuse for abuse. Be prepared for them to bring up their addiction as a scapegoat and victimhood mentality to get more sympathy from you which is not said to minimize their pain, it's a probability that helps to be aware of. If you do stay together and you haven't tried counselling, that might be a good idea.

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@@Question

Apr 17, 2021 at 8:20pm

Just because he get's drunk sometimes, doesn't mean he's a drunkard. GAG

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