More Than Friends

I want to tell my friend with benefits that I’m in love with him but I can’t because it’ll ruin everything so I’ll just say it here. I love you!!!! I want you to love me too but you totally don’t. Fuck.

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It's as I've explained

Apr 3, 2021 at 8:58pm

For (most) of us women,
when we open our legs, we open our heart.

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I guess...

Apr 3, 2021 at 9:09pm

... you need to pick them better. Plenty of loving men, but they're probably not attractive enough for a sport-fuck, so you won't love them at all.

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Tell me more !

Apr 3, 2021 at 10:33pm

Tell me more
Tell me what is it like
Tell me more
Tell me more
Does his name
Rhyme with bike?!

9 3Rating: +6

Maybe next

Apr 4, 2021 at 2:02am

Time actually decide before you begin with someone if you want it to be real. Pretty well any Dude is more than happy to have someone with no strings.....No sympathy here.

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@ Maybe next

Apr 4, 2021 at 6:43am

I think it’s pretty common for people to “go with the flow” and develop feelings along the way. Sex can feel like (and sometimes be) a logical entry point into a relationship.

Societal conditioning of women to people please, nurture, be attentive, heal, put the other person’s needs first, etc. can also play an unconscious role in settling for FWB sex with someone we have strong feelings for.

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Wow

Apr 4, 2021 at 12:51pm

Can't relate. Too virginal to have experienced this.

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play the game

Apr 4, 2021 at 2:34pm

Why tell him when you know that won't work? Instead be less available, talk to other guys and reinvent the situation to make him see your value. Make it interesting for both you and he'll raise it a level.

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Wil

Apr 5, 2021 at 6:48am

The last comment seems pretty straight forward. If you are less available will he try harder. Look this is not romantic comedy, you might as well know now than later.
Your life, your choice.
Personally i hate it when girls say ...you should know? What.

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Hey OP

Apr 5, 2021 at 3:07pm

Don't do this to yourself! Do what op is thinking ATM of this presumptive message. So commenter said: Do not guess from afar what the love you feel is about when it hits its mark make sure your close enough to truly understand the rebounding feelings your hoping/waiting for. Because distance creates displacement, disillusionment and disbeliefs. Always ask if something seems unsure or off say I feel like this is going to cause or how do you feel about the way I feel about??? Insert one's own feeling. Good luck

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E. Griffin

Apr 6, 2021 at 8:05pm

The biggest pimp today... is her mother. Think about it.

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