My friend is at risk.

They work in a very dangerous profession and it's making them money sure whatever Yah! But it is also darker type work. Now it's coming back to me that family is also encouraging this to which I find shocking. I worry I've decided recently to cut them from my life (not the job at all) because I rarely to never see them anymore and when I do they are usually very hostile to me. projecting a ton of flaws that are theirs to wear not upon me and frankly I am finally just finished still love them just can not watch this out of control train anymore.

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T. Vaughn

Apr 8, 2021 at 4:13pm

Those be them dark arts, baby boy. Fast life? Fast death.

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S. Snape

Apr 8, 2021 at 5:10pm

A teacher at Hogwarts? Vaccinatus!

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So what you’re saying

Apr 8, 2021 at 5:40pm

...is that they’re doing something illegal to make money? Some of these “professions” are far too dangerous to anyone who’s associated with the person, that I think anyone who values their life should stay as far away as possible from that person.

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Hmmmm

Apr 9, 2021 at 12:30pm

Drug dealing? Be careful not to get caught in the crossfire. Play with fire and you’re gonna get burned.

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Op here

Apr 9, 2021 at 1:24pm

I value my life a lot, if I stay away it won't be because I was threatened it will have everything to do with the lying, the awful name calling and the betrayal. When I love someone like I did this person(it is a lot less these days that love) that's where I have no problems deciding who or what has to go.

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It's not that dangerous once you get used to it

Apr 9, 2021 at 11:07pm

Taking your shirt off in front of all those people seems crazy but believe me when you're in that groove anything's possible

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Tough love

Apr 10, 2021 at 3:49am

Speaking as someone who has been there, consider that “still love them, but...” may be a trauma bond talking.

It sounds like you’re doing all the right things to separate yourself from the toxicity. Just be aware that our minds and hearts can become tied to these people in unconscious ways, and be cautious of emotional half-measures that may play on your vulnerabilities and such you back in.

I tell you this because this person may try to come back “changed” in order to win back you /your supply. It’s good to get educated and prepared to stand your ground in case this happens as you work through any lingering emotional attachments.

Wishing you best of luck and brighter days.

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It's not that dan.

Apr 10, 2021 at 4:50pm

Sorry but your a naïve dummy!

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B. Ounce

Apr 10, 2021 at 7:45pm

The sting of distancing yourself is nothing... compared to the storm you’re enabling. Walk away. Do not look back! Pulling out their hooks now will free you up later on. Be kind. Don’t yell. Tell them how you feel without judgement. Bounce.

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B. Orring

Apr 10, 2021 at 9:47pm

Welcome to life. Is it not the ultimate game of risk?

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